well my girl cheated on me about 2 months into my deployment. i'm head over heels crazy about her. but she did warn me , that after she had gotten out of a long relationship, that she might want to enjoy the single life. i understood that. right before i left though, she had told me she loved me, and that she could definately see us gettin married. this girl is awesome. but she cheated on me. and i'm definately a one woman man. should i just tell her i'm all set, and what you did is not respectful? or should i just pretend that she was single? or maybe i could just play it all off, and make sure i'm at least gettin laid (guaranteed) when i go home? she is extremely upset, and sorry about what she did. and she says she'll make it up to me. butt, she really hasn't yet. sooo, what do you people think?
2006-07-28 21:21:20 · 14 answers · asked by max 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Nobody can answer this but you. She cheated. Can you get past that? Only you know the answers.
2006-07-28 21:24:32 · answer #1 · answered by Kanga_tush2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I didn't read the whole thing, but I pretty much go the picture!! I don't care what the situation is you should never cheat or do anything to anyone while you are in a relationship. I feel like if that is the case then why try and commit yourself to one person?? Just be hoe, but be good at it!!!!!
2006-07-28 21:43:24 · answer #2 · answered by AAP0305 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im sorry but there is no exception for cheating in a relationship..my hubby is in the USMC and he gets deployed as well....its hard not having him around for months at a time..but i love him enough to wait for him...yeah people always deserve a second chance...but if she did it once she'll do it again..no matter what...so first time her bad second time your bad...if your going to give her a second chance dont be wondering what the hell went wrong when she cheats on you again cause that first time was a sign...if she couldn't handle your deployment this time around what happens if you should be deployed again....im not trying to be hard on you just open your eyes a little..being in the military is hard enough..be a wife or a gf is harder....maybe she isn't ready for a life in the military....hope everything works out for you..
2006-07-28 21:27:49 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a spouse of a husband that served our u . s ., i'm very upset that this exchange right into a question. to easily placed it, HELL NO. First, your husband is combating for each freedom you have as a citizen of u . s . a . of america. He faces threat seen and unseen. you need to thought or sympathy what he's dealing with. no longer purely, is he below attack bodily, yet additionally mentally. My husband now has PTSD. I even think of which you thinking cheating is HEARTLESS! apparently, your marriage vows did no longer advise very plenty to you or did they? it is not approximately no count if he reveals out. this is approximately doing what's suitable. you are the only individual who ought to stay with you. could God shop our squaddies!
2016-10-08 11:17:35 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The great thing about a relationship between two people is that it is between two people! YOU get to decide the rules and boundaries for your relationship. You can overcome infidelity if being with her is more important to you than being the only man she is with. That's completely up to you!
It's bound to happen. If not sooner, then later.
Monogamy is not proof of love, nor does infidelity disprove someone's love for you.
2006-07-28 21:27:39 · answer #5 · answered by Heathery Lane 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cheating is cheating no matter what the situation, and it is always an act of disrespect and an exploitation of trust. It's your choice whether you choose to accept it.
2006-07-28 21:27:36 · answer #6 · answered by Not Allie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kick that two timing cheating B&*^h to the curb and find another girlfriend. Behavior like that is completly unacceptable.
2006-07-28 21:29:11 · answer #7 · answered by t-bomb 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what happens if you do stay together and get married one day, what is she gonna do on the next deployment? you need to ask yourself how much you can put up with, if it's worth it, find out what you both expect out of the relationship and if necessary go get counseling to figure it out. good luck, my husband is deployed too!
2006-07-28 21:49:52 · answer #8 · answered by origchick 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok you are or where in the military and you learned nothing about being disrespectful, or honor and loyalty? This person while you were in Iraq decided it was ok to play, i would dump her. Stay with her and she will do it again...Sorry will not fix this...Run dude run....
2006-07-28 21:38:10 · answer #9 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry you had this happen to you while you were serving your country. I thank you for serving us and protecting us.
Your girl friend cheated on you. Again your girl friend.
Can you trust her to not to this again? You are the only one that knows this. If you cant trust her ever again then end it and move on.
2006-07-28 21:30:10 · answer #10 · answered by Mit 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋