Ladies, its the twenty first century. You have made great strides in equality in last years, but continue to insist on men making the first move.
I believe it is time to dispense with this archaic dating tradition. There is no reason a women who is interested in a man should make both parties suffer because the man is too shy or nice to make the first move. It creates lazy women who expect men to walk up to them and show their hands first without any risk of rejection on their part.
Fellow men, rise up and defend your right to be courted!
2006-07-28 20:54:45 · 15 answers · asked by ? 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
this has been bothering me for years. i have thought and asked people around and reached the conclusion that it's nature's decision to allow the fairer sex to accept courtships and men to reach them everytime. if only men and women could defy nature to break the rule.
2006-07-28 20:58:08 · answer #1 · answered by saurabh k 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
As a woman, I'll say that while I love a man to make the first move, I have a long history of taking matters into my own hands and laying my cards out first.
2006-07-28 20:58:54 · answer #2 · answered by Kanga_tush2 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hey I Agree It Should Be 50-50.
2006-07-28 20:59:56 · answer #3 · answered by Psycho-Minion(Jeff Hardy Fan) 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is in your biology babe. Read a little bit about Evolutionary biology and psychology and you'll understand why men like to hunt and women to gather, which applies not only to courting but to many aspects of the way men and women relate to each other. By the way, I love to be courted. Tested - I courted men in the past and the results were always disastrous!
2006-07-28 21:02:47 · answer #4 · answered by Sissy 4 · 0⤊ 3⤋
I agree totally !!! I wish a lady would come up and ask me , would youlike to go out for a drink ??? what a pleasant change it would be .... might scare me away tho !
2006-07-28 21:02:30 · answer #5 · answered by itsme 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you ahve a good point im glad my daughter isnt like that she tells it how it is and she is just flat out lol... shes obviously a good romodel im one of those shy guys and couldnt amke the first move if you held a gun to my head..
2006-07-28 20:58:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i actually made the first move in my relationship right now. and it felt amazing. it just took a while to get the guts to do it and now i think ill do it more often.
2006-07-28 21:00:54 · answer #7 · answered by ♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wish woman would do the chasing some times would take the guessing game away
2006-07-28 20:57:15 · answer #8 · answered by jislostinspace 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I made the first move with my husband. Best thing I have ever done!!!
2006-07-28 20:56:52 · answer #9 · answered by I love my husband 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
um where do u live??? i c girls asking out guys all the time. girls alot of the time make the 1st move but not as obvius as when guys do.
2006-07-28 20:56:59 · answer #10 · answered by heyheyitsyou 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋