this'll be quick simple, and to the point, but i need an answer. I've fallen in love, everyone says she loves me too, not too sure, but i'm leaning to that she likes me, even a little, but, thing is, she's dating someone, and this guy's an ***, doesn't treat her like the Goddess she is, but, if I hurt him, I hurt her, and I can't bear to do that. what the hell should I do about all this?
2006-07-28 20:46:59 · 29 answers · asked by Sir Tristram 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Already a close friend of hers.
2006-07-28 20:53:30 · update #1
Continue to be there for her. Eventually, she will realize that he isn't worth her time and you will be the shoulder she will cry on.
Good luck.
2006-07-28 20:52:53 · answer #1 · answered by I love my husband 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pretty much dude, since she is dating someone at the time, then you should go out and date other people as well. If you kiss her a$$ and suck up to her and treat her like some "GODDESS" or "whatever" and lay over the puddle of water and let her walk all over your back because you "LOVE" her, chances are she's gonna stick with the jerk. Women love challenges. Just forget about it (I know it's tough) and move on to another woman. The things that are most desireable are the things we can't have. (Think about it )
2006-07-29 03:56:51 · answer #2 · answered by ~*Tio-Daye Daye*~ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As hard as it's going to be ; be her friend and always be there for her most of the time girls get tired of being treated like s**t and take the guy who will treat us like a goddess just be patient and don't bad mouth him or she will get turned off by u!
Good luck in making her ur's
2006-07-29 03:53:26 · answer #3 · answered by wolfpack0810 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She likes you but you love her. you have already admitted that. Dont I repeat Dont sell yourself short..You are possibly lusting. Go down the street maybe 2 or 3 blocks there is another one coming up the street, Mingle with the unattaced ones then let me know how you feel. Good luck.. You will be fine
2006-07-29 03:55:04 · answer #4 · answered by lavernejazz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why the heck would you want to hurt him?? Just because he is an ***?? If you went around hurting all the ***es you wouldn't have time to see the girl you like. You should just let her know you like her and if she ever decides to leave her current guy that you are available and interested.
2006-07-29 03:50:00 · answer #5 · answered by cerwenna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be extra attentive to her regards.If it comes near him becoming violent&aggressive to her,be the first to know and involve yourself in acting out what's right and proper by reporting to the nearest police station.
Be kind to her even more than you already are.You can't do more til she reciprocates that attraction&affection towards you so just be who you are when with her and who knows she will see your worth and looks in your direction one day.
All the very best to you ...and her.
2006-07-29 03:56:07 · answer #6 · answered by cascadingrainbows 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is really bad as you perceive, and if she really likes you, then just wait for the right time to come to approach her.
In case you try to overstep your boundaries, by just assuming certain thing about others. Believe me, girls will change their mentally very quickly and you may be repenting yourself.
Just wait and watch for the time being.
2006-07-29 03:51:16 · answer #7 · answered by GS 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just love a girl who is very sincere to u.. never go for a person to whom u love.. love should come towards u.. and should not go in search for it.. just.
If she loves u then defnetly she will not have a date with other person. keep this in mind, place urself on a safe side. try someother girl.. thats my advice
2006-07-29 03:54:03 · answer #8 · answered by cutepraveen4u 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ALWAYs TALK TO THE GIRL FIRST, NEVER INTERFER IN THE RELATIONSHIP SO SOON OR SO SURE.
TALK TO HER ABOUT HOW SHE NEEDs TO BE TREATED WITH PLENTY OF RESPECT..THEN ONCE SHE CALMS DOWN ASK HER IF SHE'LL LEAVE HIM FOR YOU...IF SHE EVER DOES, DONT JUMP INTO THE RELATIONSHIP...TAKE IT AS FRIENDS, THEN SEE WHERE IT GOES FROM THERE.
I REALLY HOPE YOU TAKE HER INTO YOUR ARMs IF HE'S AN A$$ THEN PLEASE DO YOUR BEST TO MAKE HER HAPPY AS SHE NEEDS IT THE MOST.
2006-07-29 03:52:33 · answer #9 · answered by Neni 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have the same problem.... scary exsept I like this gut and every tells me he likes me... and It always seems llike he is going to ask me out. and he doesnt. He treats me like a girl should be treated. My last boyfriend took things way to far the first day..
2006-07-29 03:50:58 · answer #10 · answered by Rain-- 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋