recently i realized that i like my ex's best friend and he also likes me {he told me that} but the thing is that i did not tell him about my feelings for him, bcuz he told me that even if he likes me he would nevr wanna date me bcuz his best friend {my ex} would feel bad!!
and so now im feelin bad bcuz i dated my ex!!
so now i really dont know wht to do. cuz i really love this guy a lot!!
2006-07-28 20:20:37 · 21 answers · asked by czar 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I know some people who had that exact same situation happen. The girlfriend went out with the best friend, and the guys don't even speak anymore. Any mutual friends the guy, girl, and friend once had now have to choose sides. It's ugly. Just know that if you do move in on this guy, you'll hurt a lot of people for the sake of something that might not even work out.
2006-07-28 20:27:55 · answer #1 · answered by Rondo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best way to deal with that would be for you to know if your ex would have a problem with the two of you dating.
Most men will react badly to the situation but it depends a lot on the kind of friendship they have.
On the other hand, if you guys are really into each others... well... screw the ex... Well... Not literally :D
2006-07-28 20:24:53 · answer #2 · answered by Just me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-08 11:16:38 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my guess is that you like to see confusion that is too damn close to be planting your seeds the world is bigger than those two dudes get out and meet more people and stop involving yourself with men who know each other cuz at the end of the day you will be the joke or the hoe to them... True talk right thur
2006-07-28 20:26:31 · answer #4 · answered by r_u_red_e_4_dis1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would he tell you that he has feelings for you if he didn't want to hump you?? He's full of crap when he says he doesn't want to date you. He's just saying that because he thinks he should feel that way.
If you guys both want each other, then go for it. If it works out, then you won't have anything to regret.
2006-07-28 20:25:02 · answer #5 · answered by crystal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My guess is that you're only in high school and the fact is that this is a petty thing to worry about. Try to be more concerned about your grades instead.
2006-07-28 20:23:29 · answer #6 · answered by teh_sexi_hotttie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its ok to date your x.'s friend. You will need to be strong. You will definitely have to sever all ties with the x though
2006-07-28 20:25:34 · answer #7 · answered by lavernejazz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No one is ever satisfied with what ever he has. U had ur bf but still u like ur ex bf's freind........ and now u cant get him too....as he knows this.
2006-07-28 20:25:21 · answer #8 · answered by At ur Service 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its a guy thing tht if i wana date my friend's ex then i gotta first ask my friend. or u can just ask your ex tht u wana date hi friend. i think he will be ok with it.
2006-07-28 20:25:01 · answer #9 · answered by waz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sleep with both of them and tell the guy you really love that he wont get angry cause you slept with him but it was just a trick.
2006-07-28 20:24:38 · answer #10 · answered by jolly96a 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋