2006-07-28 19:52:14 · 13 answers · asked by Naushida J 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Just tell them outright - the sooner you get the situation out in the open the better - I know that you love your parents and want to make them happy but don't go to the level of trying to please them so much that you are not happy yourself - I think it is wise to recognize BEFORE you actually marry a person that you don't love them It saves a lot of headaches and misery - Your choice in a life partner is ultimately your decision - this is the person you will choose to spend your life with NOT YOUR PARENTS take your time and continue to weigh your options and situation carefully
2006-07-28 21:16:43 · answer #1 · answered by 2deep4u 2 · 6⤊ 0⤋
Fiance implys male right?
Maybe you should tell him before your parents. It could be cold feet or it could be the real thing. Don't go through with the ceremony. Also, make sure you break up with him some time before the ceremony so your guests aren't screwed out of any money.
2006-07-28 20:05:45 · answer #2 · answered by Zoer 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you sure you love this one? Maybe you should just tell the person your not really ready to settle down right now and you just want to live life for awhile on your own and to figure yourself out. If your not in love with that person you should not marry them. Life is too short !!!!!! Godd Luck !!!!!
2006-07-28 20:40:12 · answer #3 · answered by Mrs.Clause 58 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you want to marry someone you don't love? Why would you want to spend the rest of your life living in regrets? Why would you want to hurt someone innocent by not telling him your true feelings? I think you should tell your parents the truth--the sooner the better. Good luck!
2006-07-28 19:56:54 · answer #4 · answered by danielle s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think i'd be more concerned with what my fiance thought than what my parents thought
2006-07-28 19:55:53 · answer #5 · answered by cindos_69 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur fiance? oh man....your screwed. She will mess up your life. rest in peace
2006-07-28 19:55:16 · answer #6 · answered by Blondie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Act fast..
take help from some senior person..friend or relative..
do it before it kills u!!!
2006-07-28 21:12:13 · answer #7 · answered by kulkarnidg 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just like that. I don't love him, I love him!!!!!!
They should understand, and I bet they want you happy.
2006-07-28 19:56:24 · answer #8 · answered by krs451960lovesnlc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude...you are screwed. well..not really but your fiance...i mean ex-fiance is. ;]
2006-07-28 19:58:23 · answer #9 · answered by ix3sania 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
JUST TELL THEM IT'S YOUR LIFE AND THEY CAN'T TELL YOU WHAT TO DO WITH IT JUST TELL THEM HE ISN'T THE RIGHT ONE AND U WANT TO FIND THE RIGHT ONE. GOOD LUCK
2006-07-28 19:57:15 · answer #10 · answered by ♥Natasha♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋