I had a sex dream about my close guy friend last night. the issue is we tried datin twice but both times were unsuccessful. our realtionship together was unsuccessfull cuz he has family issues and they are very depressingly & he told me more than once that he cares for me too much and doesnt want me to be negativly affected by them. we think we are better as friends, we have known eachother for 5 months & our trust in eachother is very strong. we had a serious discussion about having sex w/ eachother and wana do it. i will be losin it too him but dont mind, I feel he is the right guy. he said he isint a virgin but I wonder alot if he is lying cuz he said his first time was for an hour and a half! we randomnly call eachother to talk but he calls me more than I call him and we talk and hang out on a regular almost every day basis if either of us are not busy. he is gonna be busy this weekend he is goin to a rock show and so we talked online tonight and he randomnly goes. ‘call me, i wana play a game b4 i go to sleep(video game)’ so i call him and we talked for a little while. he is tellin me how he is goin with some people to the concert and his friend has a pretty girl he knows thats gonna be there...I didnt think much of it really...did he expect me to get jealous? I am one to get jealous easily. then he was like ‘I’ll see you Monday if I dont talk to you before then.’ that was good to hear because I know he will be thinking of me. we still hug on occasion, he still holds me tight just like he did when we dated like he doesnt wana let me go. it is confusing as hell cuz i dont wana let him go when i hug him. he has said 'love ya' twice. Im pretty sure he means it cuz he said that he trusts me alot and one time on the phone after a long conversation he said 'I dont know wat is it about you, I just love talking to you' I really do love him and have a feeling he loves me too. my mom says she can tell he loves me by the way he loooks at me. his friends say he cares bout me very, very much. when we are hangin he will sit next to me or I will sit next to him. a couple of weeks ago me and some friends of ours were chillin and one of them called him to tell him to come hang out and he asked to talk to me. he then told me that he had just had a sex dream but wouldn’t tell me who the girl was... I still have deep feelings for him and havin an on and off unsteady relationship w/ him is not helping but I am glad we are good friends i just have problems telllin him how i feel alot...
2006-07-28 19:50:59 · 15 answers · asked by side_ways_sittin 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
that is the sexiest thing ive ever heard. Honestly, dont put that to waste. GO FOR HIM AND ENJOY THE TIME OF YOUR LIFE.
2006-07-28 19:54:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Guys often get freaked out when you say the L word (love), but since he's already used it first, it's totally OK to tell him the truth. And the truth is, girl, you love this guy. So tell him already!
And tell him you want him too! In the sexual way. Tell him he can have you any time any place ... then let it sit in his mind for a few days ... he'll come up with a plan.
Oh, and BTW, he's not lying with the hour and a half thing. The first time my wife and I did it, it went on for hours ... about four, I think ... if you're both horny and have the time, it's amazing what you can do.
2006-07-29 16:41:02 · answer #2 · answered by Dom N 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think if you really love or care for him, let him know. It will be HARD, but you'll be glad you did. I honestly believe whats meant to be will be. And if he loves you just as much as you love him, then in time you'll be together. Love is always worth the wait. His problems won't go away over night, but in the mean time you can be that one special person to help him through. Also I think your better off waiting on having sex together. sex has a funny way of complicating things. and from what I've read thats the last thing you guys need! Then when things are better and you guys are ready to give it another shot, you'll know when the time is right.
2006-07-28 20:01:44 · answer #3 · answered by DeSiReE 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People say they 'find' love, as if it were an object hidden by a rock. But love takes many forms, and it is never the same for any man and woman. What people find then is a certain love.
Love, like rain, can nourish from above, drenching couples with a soaking joy. But sometimes, under the angry heat of life, love dries on the surface and must nourish from below, tending to its roots, keeping itself alive.
Lost love is still love. It takes a different form, that's all. You can't see their smile or bring them food or tousle their hair or move them around a dance floor. But when those senses weaken, another heightens. Memory. Memory becomes your partner. You nurture it. You hold it. You dance with it.
2006-07-28 19:52:35 · answer #4 · answered by Princess illusion 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First - Princess Illusion - you seem stuck in a rut. This is the 3rd question you have answered with the same damn answer. It can't possibly be the right answer for each question. Give your head a shake and see if you can knock some other thoughts loose.
Now as for your question. What are you really asking? Do you want to tell him about your sex dream? If so, what is holding you back? You seem to talk about everything and if he was comfortable enough to tell you about his then go for it. You don't have to tell him he was in it, if you don't want to.
I remember when I first dreamt about my husband while we were dating. I had a sex dream about him and I told him about it. I never said he was the man in it, but he knew he was. You don't usually share a sex dream with someone unless they figured in it. Good luck.
2006-07-28 19:58:54 · answer #5 · answered by I love my husband 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its nice that u r in love..but if u r insecured about the relationship and if u feel that this relationship may not go a long way...what is most important is that u 'talk'.
U talk to him very often.So just decide a day and talk to him seriously what u feel,tel him that u r in love with him and u want to be with him for the rest of your life and see what he tells.Atleast then u know what is the future of this relationship.
2006-07-28 20:12:41 · answer #6 · answered by lovable 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I didn't like the part where he brought up the pretty girl that will be at the concert. I don't know if he was trying to make you jealous or hurt you. This seems to me like he has you on a string. He might be waiting for someone else to come along. Only you can decide what you will tolerate. I wouldn't limit myself to him exclusively.
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2016-10-01 05:28:40 · answer #8 · answered by larusch 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-07-28 19:54:16 · answer #9 · answered by Troubled son 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WOW! Just copy and paste in the email...and tell him I said hi..
2006-07-28 19:56:20 · answer #10 · answered by AslanMusic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋