2006-07-28 19:43:04 · 8 answers · asked by sharibar 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
if I miss my first husband is that I means I still love him?
2006-07-28 19:48:09 · update #1
You may be missing something that's good about him>>> something that you liked (loved)about him... but it doesn't mean you're still in love with him.
You may still feel an emotional attachment... but it doesn't mean you're in love with him.
2006-07-28 20:00:39 · answer #1 · answered by ? 4 · 3⤊ 1⤋
There is a very good chance that you still love him, or you have kids by him and want him to be a part of their life. My first husband and I have been divorced for over 7 years, and I miss all the time, every time I look at my daughter. There is nothing you can really do about it other than move on.
2006-07-29 02:47:08 · answer #2 · answered by Someonesmommy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is a very real possibility that you still love him - however you may be caught up in the illusion of being IN LOVE with him - there is a difference - When we get married on that day that you commit your mentality is that it is forever - nobody wants to find themselves in the middle of a divorce but unfortunately sometimes that is what happens and as a result we never quite get over the could have beens and the should have beens in that particular relationship - my advice is to take time to heal emotionally and then try to move on with your life and learn to not focus on regrets or get caught up in the woulda's and shoulda's but rather focus on exploring new possibilities - who knows you may meet someone that will blow your mind so deep that the ex won't even creep into your thoughts at all - It can happen (smile)
2006-07-29 02:55:48 · answer #3 · answered by 2deep4u 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will always have a piece of your heart that will love him But he wouldn't be your ex. if he did something good to or for you. But use your experiences with him to find some one who loves you for you, respects you, and loves you no matter what.. And soon you will realize you don't need him... If you have kids send time with them and if you don't have kids then you and some friends need to check out a club.. Make your self noticeable, don't be shy, say what you mean and men will respect you!
2006-07-29 02:59:40 · answer #4 · answered by momma_is_god_ha 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
may be he was giving you something that second husband unable to give
2006-07-29 08:43:34 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
absence do make the heart grow fonder
2006-07-29 02:48:06 · answer #6 · answered by ET 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I might still have feeling for him. though it seems you have difficulties in defining them.
2006-07-29 02:49:10 · answer #7 · answered by mc 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is your feeling- nobody can say
2006-07-29 02:46:28 · answer #8 · answered by Rim 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋