2006-07-28 19:07:59 · 41 answers · asked by danishmansoorin 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
You can have sex, you are married now. But talk some first.
2006-07-28 19:08:52 · answer #1 · answered by dappersmom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The perfect thing to do for your wife is this. She will absolutely love this, guaranteed. Sit close, tell her she's beautiful. Tell her specifically what you like about her. Her eyes or her hair, or whatever you like.
Give her a small gift. Maybe a big one. Something like jewelry, or something very sentimental.
Give her lots of kisses, passionate ones, and go for it.
Dont be too timid. Girls hate guys who are not sure of themselves, reason being because we girls are definately not sure either. If you think she is getting nervous, then slow down and talk to her more, about how happy you are and tell her how nice she is.
Compliments (especially from her husband) make a woman's heart explode with happiness.
I would say go for it and definately go all the way. Because there are not many cultures out there who dont have sex the first night. Most traditions and cultures do this. In fact, if you dont, she may think something is wrong, especially with her.
Remember to compliment her body when it is revealed. She may be very uncomfortable showing you her body, due to low confidence.
Enjoy it and dont be nervous, in 2 or 3 years you will be so comfortable with each other you cant even imagine.
2006-07-28 20:56:16 · answer #2 · answered by total_eclipse786 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you haven't had sex with your wife before getting married, there is no time to lose. You've done enough talking.
2006-07-28 19:10:45 · answer #3 · answered by rollo_tomassi423 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you and her need to talk this over between the two of you. As long as you both are not too tired, enjoy the night and keep it relaxed. Make it special and romantic.
Women are turned on emotionally, men are turned on physically. The more you make her feel special, desirable, and romantic, the more you will find she is eager for your first time together.
2006-07-28 19:13:13 · answer #4 · answered by Searcher 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can have sex if you BOTH want to.....
If you didn't at least attempt to she might wonder what on earth is going on.
But if she Doesn't want to maybe just cool if for a while
ps just because you are married now it doesn't give you the right to have sex. it must be consensual (she must say yes!)
2006-07-28 19:11:29 · answer #5 · answered by tjrj23 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're not supposed to do either. You're supposed to sleep in seperate beds...heck, seperate rooms in most cases! You are both supposed to wear big puffy winter outerwear (down-filled jackets, snowpants, etc.) in modesty so that your partner is less likely to have impure thoughts about you. If you hide yourself in puffy outerwear, your wife is less likely to request sex. Don't let her remove her outerwear, and do not remove hers...no matter how warm it is! You need to be modest for the rest of your life now that you're a married man! Good luck!
2006-07-29 08:00:19 · answer #6 · answered by aanstalokaniskiodov_nikolai 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Carry her across the door step, place her on the bed and carefully take off her wedding gown. kiss her neck and slowly move South till you get to Antartica and watch the ice melt!!
She may attack you first!!! If you have to talk, chat about Victoria Secrets going wireless and pour the Champagne!!
2006-07-28 19:19:10 · answer #7 · answered by Tony I 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk and romance her, dine with candles,dance to slow love ballads and tell her how special she is to you and respect her and your marriage in your lovemaking throughout the night. It isn't sex in marriage. It is an extension of your marriage and what a great way to express your joining 2 into 1!!!!
2006-07-28 19:12:19 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The night you're married you're supposed to "Consumate".
The nights after that, just see where it goes. Talk to her always, but if it leads to sex, then that's good too!
2006-07-28 19:10:56 · answer #9 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
funny question.
these days even before you get engaged, they get a chance to meet and talk a lot, and some do have sex before wedding. so it all depends upon how comfortable you or with her and how much she is with you, if both of you know each other pretty well, then bring this up to her, and it should go smooth, happy exploring.
2006-07-28 19:11:43 · answer #10 · answered by who is this 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋