If you went to Hawaii for a week and met a great guy/girl (hot) and they asked you to like "have fun" for the week, would you do it?
2006-07-28 19:04:31 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Nope, I could never do it. I do need to be able to look at myself in the mirror. If you are seriously thinking that a vacation fling would be okay I'd rethink my relationship to my significant other. Maybe you're just not ready for a mature, committed relationship
2006-07-28 19:12:04 · answer #1 · answered by Leah M 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is a harmful act against your boyfriend or girlfriend. Would they not think so if they found out you had done this? Therefore, it's harmful to them.
Doing something harmful to another is bad for them but bad for you too. First you do the harmful thing. You know you did it. This can make you feel bad about yourself or guilty.
The second thing is you are now hiding something from them. This can make you act a bit wierd around them because underneath you know you're hiding it. You tend to cut down your time around them. This can also make you upset about yourself because not only have you done something harmful, you're now hiding it - now you have 2 things working against you.
Then there's the thrid thing which is the other person eventually does something that makes you wonder if they know you about what you did. This can drive you insane. It can really, really mess you up. You need to be cautious here because this is when a person makes stupid mistakes in life. This is when the person gets into a car accident or does something they regret or starts feeling sick or something. And at this stage you will begin to criticize the other person, whether to their face or not, because if they do infact know what you did, you will attempt to discredit them should they come out and say it.
And in the end, you won't like yourself for doing it. Later on in life you keep yourself from certain success in life because underneath (and unconsciously) you'll believe you aren't deserving because you did such a harnful act against another. THE PEOPLE WHO SURVIVE THE BEST ARE THOSE WHO LIVE WITH THE HIGHEST ETHICS.
Do the right thing, and not just in this situation but in your life and watch how much better you feel about yourself and life. YOU can actually improve your life by being a decent person, just like YOU can cause yourself to live a miserable life by doing things you know are wrong.
2006-07-29 02:38:02 · answer #2 · answered by Jack 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What happens in Hawaii stays in Hawaii just like in Vegas, and CanCun Mexico. If you are even considering doing this you can't be that serious with the other guy anyways.
2006-07-29 02:11:00 · answer #3 · answered by woodtigerdp 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No....the truth tends to come out in the end and I have been cheated on before and know how it feels. I guess I could if I had no feelings at all for my gf. But then if I have no feelings for her then why is she my gf? Besides, what goes around comes around.
Nope, I have the ba**s to step up and say....babe, your not getting it done for me and I want something new...later.
Best wishes
2006-07-29 02:09:43 · answer #4 · answered by Mav 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DEPEND on what type of fun they're talking about but if you are in a true relationship your answer would be no! we all know we can do the dirt but when someone does it to us some gals/guys can't handle it.
2006-07-29 02:13:20 · answer #5 · answered by LAKENYA D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i was in hawaii for a yr and didnt do anything so im a good girl
2006-07-29 02:43:09 · answer #6 · answered by orange_crush_05 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. first of all, my husband wouldn't approve of the bf/gf thing. Second of all, why are you traveling without this "serious" significant other? Shouldn't even be an issue!
2006-07-29 02:08:40 · answer #7 · answered by Gabby_Gabby_Purrsalot 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no serious means you realy like them and are thinking about going to the next level and anyway cheating in any way is wrong
2006-07-29 02:09:32 · answer #8 · answered by shockwave1_242000 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO, I WOULD NOT DO IT, A WEEK OF FUN. WILL BE A
PROBLEM DOWN THE ROAD, CHEATING IS CHEATING
WHETHER IT A WEEK OR MORE.ESPECIALLY SINCE YOU
DONT KNOW A THING ABOUT THE PERSON.
2006-07-29 02:09:47 · answer #9 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you really are serious with this guy, dont do it. trust me, you will regret it. not worth one night for a long time worth of being miserable...
2006-07-29 02:07:40 · answer #10 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋