i mean like a fictional character or something like that.
2006-07-28 19:03:19 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
Definately. I myself fell in love with Nicholas Cage's character after watching City of Angels. It may sound a bit cliche, but sometimes people want what they cant have.
2006-07-28 19:08:13 · answer #1 · answered by RadiantGal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends how socially inept or insecure the person is. Falling in love with a fictional character is certainly a "SAFE" bet as there is no risk, no rejection, and no loss if it doesn't work out. It is however, as unfufilling as a candy bar wrapper. Indulge yourself....find a real person who has faults, intimidates you and makes you crazy with thoughts of the future. There is no love without pain nor risk, or it wouldn't be love at all. Everyone has had infatuous thoughts about a celebrity or pop idol but those expectations are not real and rarely does the person measure up to our expectations.
2006-07-29 02:41:00 · answer #2 · answered by hodji 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
logicaly i would say NO. While one may have an aversion to really liking this character and has fantasies of being together it is impossible to LOVE. as love is an emotion that also needs an action to give it substance. How on earth can or will you LOVE something that is not real or you can never have?????. Plus it is a sexual emotion that is driven by our need for companionship. You can love a person but you can never love an object.
Fanstasies are just that - fantasies and until they become reality one can not use terms from one dimension for another.
2006-07-29 02:29:18 · answer #3 · answered by are u crazy?...cuz i am not! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh my YES! as silly as that sounds...its a bit child-like (not childish, although some would disagree) in a way.
remember back when you were a kid, fantasy ruled! you imagined you were a superhero, a villain, a monster, a prince/princess, a whathaveyou.
its only natural that you would have fantasies as a "grownup" only...its a secret "love".
of course you can fall in love with a character from a movie, or book.
i write romance novels in my spare time...and i fall for each and every one of my fantasy heroes! how could i not..i make them PERFECT!
but that is not reality, and when the story ends...so to does my love, then off to the next adventure. ha ha.
why do you think ppl have such a fascination with vampires and ghosts...etc. its the mysterious unknown...the romantic dark side of ourselves. its in our nature to find "relationships" in any situation. we long for company, if none is at our disposal...we invent it.
2006-07-29 02:42:56 · answer #4 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it fact I've fallen in love with real physical people, but created a fantasy about their personality.
2006-07-29 05:32:13 · answer #5 · answered by jhs80123 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes most people fall in love with a fantasy anyway
2006-07-29 02:07:34 · answer #6 · answered by inquiring minds want to know 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. Do it all the time. Especially in classic novels.
2006-07-29 13:57:34 · answer #7 · answered by Elaina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure. Probably easier than with reality, since the warts don't show.
2006-07-29 02:10:37 · answer #8 · answered by Judy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yah i guess so, since i am heads over heels on Kim Possible. She is one "Babe".
2006-07-29 02:16:28 · answer #9 · answered by Neozerox 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think... because i like those gorgeous anime there....
2006-07-29 02:06:52 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋