He doesnt want to talk about it- and if i try to bring it up he says "ug..not more wedding talk"
2006-07-28 18:39:11 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
maybe he thinks your going overboard with the wedding plans? maybe he just wanted to keep it simple. My husband was a bit like that with our wedding. We still had a small wedding, but I kind of made it a bit bigger then he wanted it to be. He never said anything like your fiance, but he was kind of like "sure, whatever you want hun." then went back to doing whatever it was he was doing. guys arent always interested in wedding plans. some girls say their fiance was just as involved in the planning as their were because it is both their day, but not every guy is like that. Mine didn't care less if we got married in front of the tv in the living room, as long as we got married. Just do your thing and let him do his. Maybe get out just the 2 of you for dinner and a movie or something and don't bring up the wedding unless he does. He might feel wedding plans are taking over your relationship right now. Show him you still have plenty of time for him as well.
2006-07-29 03:20:14 · answer #1 · answered by Jenn ♥Cadence Jade's mum♥ 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Totally normal. Men could care less about the whole hubbub of the wedding. That's your thing. That's what you have been dreaming about your whole life. He just wants to know what day,what time, what suit, what place and how long do you have to stay at the reception. He is already mentally moved on to the wedding night and the honeymoon. Don't worry sweetie, you'll be just fine. Congrats and have a sweet life together.
2006-07-28 19:14:54 · answer #2 · answered by brneyedgirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We are planning our weddings from the age of 4. Men starting thinking about weddings after they propose.
And there are lots of things they are not really interested in.
Don't be too worried. They will get over it.
2006-07-29 00:18:05 · answer #3 · answered by paintingj 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm glad I'm not the only one! I am learning that the wedding stresses him out as much as it stresses me out. Now, I deal with the wedding stuff, and he helps me relax. It seems to be normal. At the beginning of our engagement, he told me what he wanted in the ceremony etc. and he is pretty much happy as long as those things are done. Otherwise, he just wants to show up and enjoy the marriage for the rest of his life.
2006-07-28 22:02:03 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wish I knew too! My fiance won't talk about our wedding either. I think it's pretty normal. Just make sure he shows up and stands in the right place! I am sure he will have lots of fun and enjoy it as much as you in the end : )
2006-07-28 18:57:24 · answer #5 · answered by lotsalove83 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, you are marrying a MAN!!!! This is how they are. My husband didn't know SSHITT about our wedding. I did everything and just told him when to show up and what to wear. You have to GUIDE men. They would rather go to a baseball game or something. Don't worry about it. Just do whatever you want and make your plans. Get used to this: married life is VERY similar to what you are doing now!!!
2006-07-29 10:31:37 · answer #6 · answered by GiddyGiddyGoin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you be attentive to what, that's a blessing in hide. do no longer combat over his no longer prepared to be a piece of the making plans...merely enable or no longer this is. merely make sure that he likes the marriage region and church. different than that, female do your ingredient. he will choose somewhat enter on his tux, yet you p.c.. the colour of the tux and the groomsmen's tux too. do no longer subject it will be advantageous. It like adorning a house. My husband provides me loose reign and would not prefer to be in contact in indoors adorning. as long as he has his mushy chair interior the den, he's extremely happy. So i circulate and p.c.. out what i choose..and spend interior the cut back he gave and it continually seems desirable. He values my opinion because of the fact he's colour blind...what ought to he tell me approximately type and colour. So if he would not care with regard to the making plans...as long as he shows up on your wedding ceremony day dressed up in his tux and he loves and adores you and could make an excellent husband in each and every opposite direction...drop the complaining..do no longer point out it anymore and circulate approximately your wedding ceremony plans. this is no longer that substantial so you might combat with him over this. it will be merely advantageous.
2016-11-03 05:58:12 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds to he may be geting cold feetor that he just might be very tired of hearing about iit. my once best girl friend was pregnant i was to be god mother, all she did was talk baby. baby baby baby baby baby by the time she had her i couldent stand the baby and declined to be her god mother.peple dont like the feeling that something is being crammed down their throats. so cold feet or over whelmed back off. do what you want for the wedding he might even not care about how it is planned. it is your day anyway so do it your way and be happy. good luck and congrats
2006-07-28 19:01:41 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband spent all 11 months of our engagement ignoring the wedding. He said it was my thing, he just wanted to show up. I think it just depends on the man. sometimes they're into helping you out, and other times they just don't want anything to do with it, and still other times they think they should just stay outta your way and let you do it how you want to
2006-07-28 20:43:08 · answer #9 · answered by Lady blah blah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know my other half is the same way. i think they just are sick of wedding talk and they want you to be happy so they leave everything up to you. Its very normal.
2006-07-29 07:28:51 · answer #10 · answered by stacydeets 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋