There's this guy that I'm madly in love with and I really want to be with him. He's part of the reason I get so depressed and why I eat lots and lots of junk food and why I feel I need to lose some weight.
2006-07-28 18:26:31 · 31 answers · asked by Jackie O 2 in Health ➔ Diet & Fitness
I don't think that you are too young to be in love. I fell in love around that age too. But i do think it is bad that you feel you need to lose weight because you love him.
2006-07-28 18:30:04 · answer #1 · answered by Well i Say.. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I don't think you are TOO young to be in love. BUT.....I do think you are too young to have a SERIOUS relationship.
Your teens prepare you for a future as an adult, and focusing on your education and future should be your primary concern. This is the time for you to live without adult responsibility and you should enjoy it.
If you are depressed, you should speak with someone (parent, counselor, pastor, or anyone you trust.) Depression can be a very SERIOUS thing. You need to feel better about yourself!
If YOU feel you need to lose weight, there are several things you can do to lose the weight safely without fad diets. (EX: eat small frequent meals; choose fruits & vegs for comfort foods if needed, instead of junk foods) Make any mealtime at least 30 mins in a relaxed environment (you'll find you eat less) because it takes the stomach 15 mins to register it's FULL.
Never change for anyone but yourself. You are special just the way you are. If someone asks you to change, they aren't allowing you to be yourself. YOU have to like who you are, or you will NEVER be happy. It's okay to accept an opinion, reflect on it, and make any changes YOU wish. People come, people go, you have to live with yourself forever!!!
REMEMBER:
Only you can make you happy!!
2006-07-29 02:31:02 · answer #2 · answered by peachy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't believe you are too young to love someone. I think it's common for people to think they are in love the moment they have those kinds of feelings for someone outside their family. It is often mistaken for "real love" because it is such an overwhelming and intense feeling. Love does not make you eat junk food or get depressed or feel anything except absolute joy and contentment. This is not to discount what you are feeling, though, because it's very real. Just be careful and remember the first love is respecting yourself. All the best to you.
2006-07-29 01:32:17 · answer #3 · answered by jd 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure there's nothing wrong with a 15-yr being in love. My mom was 14-yrs old when she met my dad, 15 when she got pregnant with me, and 20 by the time she had her last child, the fifth child. They have been married for 27 yrs now, and the first like 20 were really rough, you know with her dropping out of school to take care of children that my father didn't want to help her with. She had to grow up pretty quickly and gave up a lot of her dreams.
But the point to remember is that she was 15 and she was in love.
I suggest you focus on school. You have your whole life to be in love and waste it on someone. If this guy makes you feel like that then maybe you need to drop him. It doesn't sound like a healthy relationship. I get that way about my children, not my hubby, my children.
2006-07-29 02:25:53 · answer #4 · answered by shawonda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fifteen is not too young to be in love, but girlfriend, let me clue ya. Any man who could make you miserable enough to stuff your face with nasty food and feel bad about yourself isn't worth your time. You have to love yourself and take care of your own business before you should bother with some man's business. You will soon find out (5-7 years from now) that men are a dime a dozen and for every one that doesn't want you, there'll be eleven of them out there that do. Be healthy and confident, then a man will fall into your lap who's perfect. Much love
2006-07-29 01:35:27 · answer #5 · answered by Sarah V 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does anyone really know what love is? It starts out as an obsession which makes us want to pursue the relationship! Did you ever see Angelina Jolie when she was with her previous love? The two were obsessed with each other. He said it was like she was the cutest puppy dog and couldn't get enough of her. The relationship ended! If you're eating junk food and depressed then that's not love, its obsession. Love does not destroy, love is nurishment. Love yourself first-then you can love someone else.
2006-07-29 01:35:39 · answer #6 · answered by katrazzy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's called hormones... at your age your body is overwhelmed with chemical changes. I can almost guarantee you will not be with this guy when your 30.
You are depressed in part BECAUSE you eat junk food. Don't blame anyone, the sooner you start taking responsibility for your life the better off you'll be in the long run.
2006-07-29 01:32:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course you are madly in love you are 15, thats what your supposed to be. But honestly you cant love anyone until you love yourself, dont let him bring you down, and when you feel like eating go out and take a walk or do something physical, you'll feel better about yourself.
2006-07-29 01:37:01 · answer #8 · answered by boredagain1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes u ra too young ,atleast u must be at 18or 19 in this age u dont know what is good & what is bad . u just thinking about love by seeing movies or some other , but that is not correct .this is the time for u to get up in ur career so be concentrate on ur studies .ok all the best
2006-07-29 01:39:25 · answer #9 · answered by jack 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You answered your own question. Relationships are a pain in the ***. They make you do weird things, feel oddly about yourself and take away the importance of your relationship with your friends and family, not to mention distract you from your studies. You are not madly in love with a guy. You are madly in "Wow, that guy is a hottie" with this guy. Don't waste your time untill you are ready to be married.;
2006-07-29 01:31:14 · answer #10 · answered by The Nag 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋