Why i felt the pain even in our next round and i didnt reach the cloud 9?
2006-07-28 18:26:25 · 14 answers · asked by ress 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It takes some time for your body to get used to this new situation, and be sure you spend plenty of time on foreplay which will make it easier for you to reach cloud 9.
2006-07-28 18:29:42 · answer #1 · answered by Kanga_tush2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well its not going to just pop up honey on the first shot, it takes time and patience just like everything else in life. It may still be a lil sore up until about the fourth or fifth time, just relax and give it time!!! Think I am going to reach cloud 9 tonight, and that will help. Also try a new position, this is after your body gets use to sex, then see what you like and how it feels, you will be reaching cloud nine in no time!!! Also use a condom, and if your younger than 18 think long and hard about this decision you have made to become sexually active, its no turning back now since you are not a virgin anymore, JUST BE CAREFUL!!!!
2006-07-29 01:35:17 · answer #2 · answered by Chelly Belly 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its normal since its your first time.. you can appreciate having sex if you know how to do it... read some articles.. ask your BF to give you good foreplay.. if he dont know how to do it well you both can read some magazines and advices about it... its a body language.. when your doing it.. tell your boyfriend how you want him to do it... what strokes you want... tell him to caress your body gently and feel his every touch... close your eyes and take time touching each other it will surely give pleasure to both of you and in that way you can reach your cloud nine many times.... give time dont be in a hurry.. do it with love and feelings... and you both need to tell each other what to do to make you feel good..
2006-07-29 01:40:38 · answer #3 · answered by justme 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry it is very painful for you . You are not the only one. You will get an orgasm once the pain goes away and you explore a little more. Remember, practice makes, well, if not perfect it makes it at least more pleasant.
2006-07-29 01:31:01 · answer #4 · answered by Missy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it will hurt when it's still tight. Or maybe because it lacks foreplay...give it time...you'll reach "Cloud Nine" after a while.
2006-07-29 01:33:15 · answer #5 · answered by wittlewabbit 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just forget it....you both are normal like millions....and the pain in sex is not at all painful......as other answers are revealing, you will forget the same in total after its becoming a regular feature.
2006-07-29 01:36:56 · answer #6 · answered by indraraj22 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
AS YOU GET FURTHER INTO SEXX THE FIRST TIME YOU HASVE A MILLION THINGS FLYING AROUND YOUR HEAD WIL , IT EVER HAPPEN AGAINN WILL HE EVER SHOW UP FOR MOTRE ACTIONN?/ DONT SE YOUR SIGHTS ON JUST ONE PERSON, HE MAY JUST DUMP YOU IF YOU PRESSURE HIM INTO MORE, AND ONE MORE THING AS YOU GO ALONG, YOU WILL GET MORE MORE SENSATIONS(SEXEAUL FEELINGS ETC) AS FAR AS HIM PERFORMING ARE YOU IN CONTROLL IS HE GOING TOO FST TOO SLOW ETC, IS HE REALLY REALY GONA TAK YOU TOO THAT CLOUS NINE, ONLY YOU CAN CONTROL, HIS MOVEMENTS THE WAY YOU WANT TOO BE LOVED ETC. SIT DOWNE WITH HIM TEL HIM STRAIGHT OUT WHAT YOUR TURN ON ARE ETC.
2006-07-29 01:33:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it just takes time remember u were only on ur second round u just escaped from bein a virgin u will feel pain
2006-07-29 01:32:33 · answer #8 · answered by tjfetterhoff 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it takes a little practice to reach the big O. if you know what gets you to that point, show him how!
2006-07-29 01:31:49 · answer #9 · answered by cindos_69 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It normally doesn't happen the first time. It will happen eventually.
2006-07-29 01:27:54 · answer #10 · answered by Kim 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋