2006-07-28 18:21:14 · 16 answers · asked by xxazeazalxx 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Me and my wife both are open honest with each other, we are LIBERALS. We believe that guilt is a tool many religions use as a ploy to keep people subdued and controlled. We have been happily married for 17 yrs. We are just interested is see haw many of you out their are hung up on possessivness, and jealousy.
2006-07-28 18:38:18 · update #1
Some people have perfectly happy "open" marriages. As long as you're honest and both of you are ok with it, go for it.
2006-07-28 18:23:49 · answer #1 · answered by Kanga_tush2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you may feel mutual about it for awhile. but the trouble is just lingering around the bend.
you both are setting yoursleves and your relationship for failure.
reconsider, why did you marry . are you no longer enough for one another? if not take some time to get to know each other again and begin an affair with eachother. you made a promised in your contractual agreement in front of all your family and friends that you will cherish and honor one another. your'e on the spotlight to prove it.
its time to go back to the begining. live by your vows for both of your sakes.
2006-07-28 18:35:35 · answer #2 · answered by Storm 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you each are with other people doing things you should be doing with each other, that should be an eye opener that you are each with the wrong person. You should double think your marriage before you end up hurting a third party.
2006-07-28 18:26:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Having affairs...well yes its wrong and its also selfish. Confession your affair to your spouse is a way to alleviate YOUR conscience and has nothing to do with the love for your spouse. Marriage is about love and devotion and commitment. Sometimes its best to keep the hurtful truth quiet, even if it does burden your conscience.
2006-07-28 18:24:16 · answer #4 · answered by solitas777 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It definitely indicates a real problem in your relationship if neither of you can remain faithful. I believe it is wrong, but is it wrong for you? If you are happy in an open marriage, it might not be wrong. Good Luck. Peace.
2006-07-28 18:26:16 · answer #5 · answered by funigyrl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
2 wrongs don't make a right, especially when you have both committed adultery. This marriage is going down the drain.
2006-07-28 18:23:45 · answer #6 · answered by notyou311 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you have an "open" marriage?
Regardless, if you are both having affairs, soon you will be having a divorce.
Is this what you want? Stop it and get your life on track again.
2006-07-28 18:24:43 · answer #7 · answered by DD 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't think so, if you like to resolve your marriage and willing to accept and know what will be the consequences of your confrontations. After all both did the mistakes.
2006-07-28 18:33:14 · answer #8 · answered by 2m's 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why stay married both of you need to get down to the root of the problem and walk away from each other amicably
2006-07-28 18:25:34 · answer #9 · answered by aldo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why bother getting married,I learned the hard way .If you really love someone you wouldn't mess around.I think marriage should be reserved for those who are truely committed to each other.I certainly don't want to share my man.
2006-07-28 18:28:24 · answer #10 · answered by coolkid 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋