Me and my boyfriend have been going on ever since the january!! So far the relationship has been okay but now he is really trippin. About three days ago me and him made plans to go out and the morning and eat some breakfast ,and afterwards we we're going to chill at his place and watch a movie. I told him to call me in the morning to let me know what time he was going to pick me up. He promised he would call me the next morning but he never did. It has been three days since I last talked to him.. I'm really starting to think that my boyfriend is playing games and I"m about ready to break up with him. Also I know nothings wrong with him because my friend spotted him in a gas station yesterdat. What should i do? Guys why do yall do things like this? My boyfriend could of picked up the phone and called me to let me know there was going to be a change of plans!! The last time we talked on the phone we we're laughing and having a good time, now its seems like he's blowing me off
2006-07-28 18:20:58 · 14 answers · asked by lady 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Why didn't you call him? Something could have happened where he couldn't call you. If he has a good explanation, try to forgive him, if he's shady, dump him.
2006-07-28 18:25:37 · answer #1 · answered by Kanga_tush2 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The best thing you can do is go on with your life! This may be one of the hardest things you'll ever have to do, but, if you really like this guy, the worst thing you can do is sit around waiting for him, or even worse, chase him. If you let him get away with it this time, he will do it again and again. Show him that you are independent and you don't need his immaturity in your life. He will either wake up and respect you the way he should, or it will be too much for him to handle and he will go his on way. If he chooses to go his own way, it's better you find out now. If he stays you will receive the respect and consideration you deserve. If you live your life for someone else, you will never be truly happy!
2006-07-28 18:42:22 · answer #2 · answered by snickers3501 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Break up with him! you dont need a imature man that is playing games. A real man will call you up and tell you that he changed plans or even just to tell you that he doesnt want to go. But to leave you hanging like that!! GET RID OF HIM!!!
2006-07-28 18:27:38 · answer #3 · answered by laural8477 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He should have called to cancel the plans, since he didn't... It sounds like he is trying to get you mad, so you will break up with him. Or he is going to break up with you soon. If yall haven't talked for that long....that's usually the case.
2006-07-28 18:28:27 · answer #4 · answered by MandyHawk 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Woah!!!!! Back up please. It isn't only guys that know how to disrespect, woman are wonderful at it too. If someone ignored me for three days I would tell his a** to grow up and if he cannot show you the respect you deserve then he doesn't deserve you. Don't put up with anyone treating you like that, that goes for the men out there that have women treating them the same way. You have to have enough respect for yourself not to put up with him treating you that way. Put it to him straight, either he acts like he cares or he can pi** off.
Best wishes..
2006-07-28 18:28:37 · answer #5 · answered by Mav 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmmm.....I wonder what you could do to clear this up.
How about picking up the phone and calling him before you start talking about breaking up.....eh?
2006-07-28 18:37:01 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your instinct is correct -- he's playing games and you should break up with him. He is rude and immature and not worthy of any more of your time spent waiting on his sorry self.
2006-07-28 18:26:31 · answer #7 · answered by DD 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you were right to want to break up with him . Do it and do it fast! before it gets any more complicated. Dont think. just dump! Its the 'right thing to do'
2006-07-28 18:25:10 · answer #8 · answered by bickeo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This sounds like a case for that reality show CHEATERS.
2006-07-28 18:25:15 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
call him up and ask him "what's wrong". he may be cheating but u don't know that for sure. why ahsent he called? u call him and ask him that
2006-07-28 18:25:32 · answer #10 · answered by chapped lips 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋