i like him but i am scared to tell him
i am affriad he will reject me and i dont want that to happen
help!
2006-07-28 18:17:42 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This is what I think. If you don't say anything to him than the answer is always going to be "no." So by not just telling him how you feel you are already being rejected. All you have to do is express you feelings towards him in the most comfortable way for you. If he does say no then at least you wont live your life wondering. Also you will never succeed in anything if you never take a risk. So you might run into alot of no's before you find a yes, but that is normal and part of life. We all go through it and it is hard at first but I assure you that it gets easier.
2006-07-28 18:33:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anthony L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had the same dilemna once. I was/am madly in love with this woman. She is the woman of my dreams to be honest. I gave her a love letter and a CD and told her flat out to her face I was in love with her. It was gut-wrenching. She had rejected my advancements, much to my great dissapoint. However, you know what I learned? The pain of rejection isn't as bad as the pain of regret. It is better to have at least tried, because then you will never wonder..."What if..."
Just do it!
2006-07-29 01:38:38 · answer #2 · answered by solitas777 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so, live without knowing. Live your whole life wondering "what if". That sounds so much better than the 30 seconds of anxiety that might happen if you actually say something to the guy.
2006-07-29 01:22:20 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
of otherit is the same thing with guys just do what girls tell guys:gain confidence then ask. if he says no there are plenty of other guys in the world if he says no.
2006-07-29 03:41:30 · answer #4 · answered by young love helper 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him like him..........he can only say no.....It may hurt a bit if he does, but, just come out and tell him. You may soon be his girl if you tell him. Good luck.
2006-07-29 01:34:49 · answer #5 · answered by turbietech 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't even worry about if he says no he says no. but than he would be stupid . but just in case it don't work out call me (678-838-3370) my name is eric.
2006-07-29 01:23:33 · answer #6 · answered by Blu_ghost09 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he wont.. and if he does its not that big a deal.. a guy will be happy someone compliments his looks and style..
2006-07-29 01:21:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you will never know if you dont ask or tyr
2006-07-29 02:30:07 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
gently quit him
2006-07-29 01:21:25 · answer #9 · answered by Zilkky 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋