Why does women find me repulsive?

Question

Well, the question is self-explanatory. It just seems when I actually build up a nerve to ask, I do so and I get no reply or a straight up No or "Let's be friends." I just think that I have something that women don't want from me and I don't know what it could be. It also does not help that I have no guts at all and I feel like I don't have a clue at all. I can start the conversation, but I can't finish one to save my life, at least how I want to finish it out. Look, I think this is an easy question to answer, but I guess I want to know how can I build some confidence when every time you try, you fail

Answer 1

WOW.
MAYBE YOU JUST HAVEN'T FOUND THE RIGHT ONE YET.
OR MAYBE YOU SHOULD TRY LOOKING SOMEWHERE ELSE?
I KNOW HOW THAT IS WITH THE CONVO THING THAT'S WHY I STAY AWAY FROM DATING AND MEN COMPLTELY.
BUT I KNOW YOU DON'T WANT TO GO MY SAD,LONELY ROUTE.


JUST BE PATIENT AND WORK ON YOU AND YOUR APPROACH.
FORGET THEM 4 NOW(AND WORK ON YOU)
TRUST ME WHEN YOU ARE NOT LOOKING,THAT'S WHEN SHE'LL COME ALONG.

I GUESS YOU SHOULD PRACTICE.
GET BOOKS ABOUT WOMEN.
WHAT TYPE LIKES WHAT.
WHERE A CERTAIN TYPE HANGS OUT,ETC....
CONFIDENCE IS A VERY HARD THING TO BUILD.

YOU ARE NOT REPULSIVE,YOU'RE JUST RUNNING INTO WOMEN THAT ARE NOT MEANT FOR YOU.
LOOK AT IT THAT WAY,MAYBE THE ONES THAT ARE TURNING YOU AWAY HAVE SERIOUS PROBLEMS.

GOOD LUCK THOUGH.

Answer 2

Confidence is the key! We want a man who knows we can take care of ourselves but is "man" enough to take care of us. If you have no confidence, how can you possible be that man.
Also, its true that women prefer personality to anything else when we are searching for a relationship.
Your best bet is to stop putting so much pressure on your self. Develop a good personality, learn how to have a conversation with a woman that doesn't depend on your future relationship. We typically like the "friends first" routine. You dont' have to have a full length conversation on the meaning of life, just a simple how are you, is a great starter. After you have made the first step, just a casual relationship, walk away. Let her want you! If men come on too strong we push away. Think of your conversations as something you'd have with a female friend, not a life partner. Always, Always, Always... MAKE EYE CONTACT. Make her feel like she is the most important person in the world. She'll want to continue that feeling and will come after you.

Answer 3

Look, first of all you need to change you WHOLE attitude. Read Nietzche's the Will to Power. Its a philosophy book, that encourages self-empowerment and control. First, you have to love yourself. That means taking care of your body, cultivating your mind, and finding things that make YOU happy. Only when you love yourself can you be confident, and only when you take care of yourself by improving yourself can you be confident. Until then, don't bother with women because you will not gain confidence and happiness from them, its internal.

Answer 4

try this dont just ask them out without getting to know them first get to know them hang with them find out whats going on what they like watch for any intrest signs at all and if they give any then is the time to ask its much more time consuming but it builds a good relationship from the start

Answer 5

look buddy...if you don' t appreciate and love yourself...no one will..lets face.. that is your situation now is it..you don't have to look like a hunk...but be satisfied by what you are..make yourself feel good and pamper yourself from time to time...your confidence will penetrate throgh..and you'll get the admiration of the girls..most girls arre attracted to onfidence..not arrogance or low self esteem..me however..i'm a little differrent..i like to tend to ppl..take care of them..but now and again i wouldn't mind having someone strong to lean on..try it buddy..and aye your bound to ace your way..we all do..eventually

Answer 6

you need to dress preppy.. lose some weight.. go tanning.. get your ears pierced.. and your good to go my son