i like this guy how do i ask him out?

Question

we already act like we're dating and we met for the first time on the 27 of july this year, ive only seen him once how do i ask him out the next time i see him

Answer 1

Ask him directly but gently when you are alone. He will love it.

Answer 2

r u sure u want to be with him u havent spend enough time with him, u said u act like u already date but u have only seen him once, im not sayin its not okay to act like u date him bc i guess its flirting but i think it would be better if u just see him more first u never know it might be better.

Answer 3

Honestly, I think you should STUDY him first. Find out who, what, is important in his life, Friends, family, activities, where does he like to hang out. Okay, are you into any of those things?? Find out what his weaknesses are. Like if he's not good at something that will make or break him. Offer to help him and get to know him. that way you can find out what he's thinking? How he thinks, how he treats people. YOu may not be interested in him after that or you may be MORE interested. Whatever he will ASK you to hang out with him.

Let him ask you out and when he does say, "What day?" Tell him that you have plans on that day even if you do not. If he asks you what you are doing say, "it's a family thing I can't get out of." Then YOU select another day that's good for you HENCE you are now in control. You want to always be in control. If you are looking to hit and run then ask him out and let him feel like you are so much in love with him and YOU desperately have to have him and only him. Watch him act like he's in control. BUT if you really like this guy you will study him and learn how he thinks and make him feel like HE needs you. Relationships are 50% MENTAL. You eventually have to connect with this person. If you do it this way you will already know how this person will react in certain scenarios. You will be able to pinpoint his actions and reactions. Hence you can be able to pull back or go forward if and when you need to. also Come up with a phrase or words like something like "Oh That's hot" (Paris Hilton phrase) or something that you can say all the time that is Cool. If you hear him say it to other people then YOU are in his head and he's beginning to emulate you.

I just know that if a guy really wants you badly ... He will walk over hot coals to talk to you, or get your attention. Right now if you are at the point where YOu are going to ask him out. You will loose control and he will treat you badly. don' t do it. STudy him first. Make him feel and think that he needs you. Try to be his friend first that way you know his Motives of Operation but never let him get to know you to fast...
i hope this helps maybe not what you want to hear but you are a Goddess and no matter if we are in 1940 or 2040 you have to always remain in control when it comes to men. Make him depend on you for something.
See ya...good luck

The PurpleScorpionGoddess

Answer 4

Well, get to know him first through friends and see if he is a nice guy. Get his number and ask him if he would like to go get coffee sometime.

Answer 5

ask him about his schedule, find out his interests, mention things that you both like and if he is interested he'll make time for you you dont have to 'ask' him out just ask him to go out for coffee or ice cream or to the beach whatever something you both like

Answer 6

just ask him if he likes u more than a friend and if he says yes ask him out.

Answer 7

just be like ived like you for quiet a whiel and i was thinking if we can take it to da next level? or just say you really like him and you want to be wit him.

Answer 8

men always ask out women unless your a whor

Answer 9

tell him that u r afraid of the dark and ask him to accompany you

Answer 10

hey i had a good time, want to hang out again?