i like her too but i dont know if i can trust her. we broke up twice
2006-07-28 18:00:59 · 23 answers · asked by tjfetterhoff 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
dump her... she is playing games
2006-07-28 18:02:36 · answer #1 · answered by Guzzy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take this from experience....MOVE on. I almost got married to a guy who did that to me. We broke up out of the blue, no reasons or explanations (more than likely so he can pursue another relationship with another girl).....then he realized months later he made a mistake. We got back together and got engaged, the relationship was ruined when things like that happen....we didnt' really love each other like we should and we finally broke it off....so I suggest you do the same and break it off and move on. Or this will be a never-ending cycle of breakup/get back together for the rest of your days. And no, you can't really ever trust a person after they break up with you like that.....that is why things get ruined. If you don't have trust, you don't have anything! Break up, move on, and find someone who will treat you right.
2006-07-28 18:06:44 · answer #2 · answered by Melissa M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know. However, I dated a girl who went out with me for 2 yrs solid plus or minus a few days, that then began a cycle of breaking up and apologizing for half a year (like every week), went solid for half a year, and then repeated the pattern of off-and-on then solid for two more years before I final got tired of it and told her that if she broke up with me I wasn't going to take her back ever again. She left me and I haven't heard from her since, I do still regret it, but I was tired of being afraid of losing her, and tired of trying too hard to make her happy. All I can say is that if you DO decide to trust her I hope things work out better for you.
2006-07-28 18:11:08 · answer #3 · answered by morman620570 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to build your trust. It also depends on what do you not trust her on. If you don't give those examples on why you don't trust her then not much people can help.
But here is a tip. I hae no idea how old you are but just take it slow. If you want to really be with her then you wont call her so much. Just betweeen us guys, when a girl is in love with you, she will ask "Why didn't you call me yesterday?" Or you know.
Also if she does like you give her a chance IF you like her. It's not about her (At this moment) its only about you untill you have built a close relationship to her. Untill then ask her if she likes you so much why does she brake up with you?
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2006-07-28 18:09:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've done that to my bf. I broke up with him and then hung out with this other guy I liked only to realize that this new guy was a dick and that my bf was an amazing guy. Lucky for me my bf took me back and I really appreciate him more because I've realized how there are a lot of bad guys out there. I think you should take her back this time. But if she dumps you again, then ditch her because it might be a different situation.
2006-07-28 18:14:19 · answer #5 · answered by Roxy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't trust her. How long has it been since the two times you broke up? A couple months? And what has really changed in that time? Real change takes years and years.
2006-07-28 18:07:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe let her know that you're sick of playing games with her. You don't want to deal with this on again off again relationship crap. Tell her you need a break to figure out if you this is really what you want. If you realize you want to be with her and she's waited for you, give it another shot. If she can't wait for you, then she probably still doesn't want just you.
2006-07-28 18:05:54 · answer #7 · answered by Just Me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did she cheat on you? If she did...did you ask why? I believe it always takes 2 to tango which means you might have done something to hurt her too:) If you like her, then give it another chance. Life is also about taking chances...Go out and try to see if there is still a connection, if it doesnt then its time to move on...atleast in the end, you wont have to wonder...Good luck
2006-07-28 18:04:25 · answer #8 · answered by wittlewabbit 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, from my experience, i would say to leave her alone. Don't get involved if she is the one who broke up with you. She probably thought that someone she thought that was "better" than you would ask her out, but her plan failed, and she comes back to you, her back-up plan. I say leave it be.
2006-07-28 18:06:29 · answer #9 · answered by rawrawree 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she's only keeping you around when she needs you...if you're okay with that, by all means, stick around. BUT if you're not, get out. GET OUT NOW before the obsession takes over!
2006-07-28 18:03:41 · answer #10 · answered by kaaaahhh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
TRUST HER.
There's nothing more reliable than a girl that broke up with you first.
2006-07-28 18:02:34 · answer #11 · answered by Stink Finger 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋