My Dad hits me all the time and i mean throws me on the ground as hard as he can. Everytime something goes wrong.. he will yell at me for it!!... He hits me in the head and practically knocks me out and i try fighting back but he jsut gets madder and madder so its hard to hit him back. I have called the cops on him before but they said if there are no marks or evidence of him doing it then they cant do anything about it and for some reason, no matter how hard i get hit, i never get bruised up!!!.. My mom and brother IWLL NOT stick up for me either so that dont help. What can i do?????
2006-07-28 17:56:04 · 26 answers · asked by sweeetlover225 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
GET HELP! Call Child protective services, call 911 next time he does it, do EVERYTHING to get away from him! I lived with physical abuse for 5 years and still suffer from when my shoulder was popped out of it's socket and if I have another concussion in my lifetime it could kill me. GET OUT OF YOUR HOUSE! IT doesn't matter if you're bruised or not, CPS would rather investigate when you have no bruises than let it be until you end up in the hospital.
2006-07-28 18:01:39 · answer #1 · answered by Ember 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am so sorry to hear of what is happening to you! If you can't find help with your immediate family, try getting help from a close, trusted family member, or a trusted teacher at school. Even your local church can provide you aid. If all else fails I found some numbers for you to call for help:.
Childhelp USA 1-800-422-4453 National Child Abuse Hotline
National Crisis Line 1-866-334-4357 Crisis Help Line
National Youth Crisis Hotline 1-800-448-4663
Resource Center on Domestic Violence, Child Protection, & Custody
1-800-527-3223 Information on Domestic Violence, Child Protection & Child Custody
I hope this will help you.
2006-07-29 01:04:35 · answer #2 · answered by Miss U 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm assuming you're a minor, so I would suggest calling Child Protective Services or some other child advocacy group in your area.
It sounds like your whole family is, if not being abused, certainly intimidated by your dad.
The cops are going to do little in this case. You need to call someone who will stand up for you and intervene on your behalf. Abuse, whether physical, mental, verbal, or sexual, is never acceptable, and it needs to be stopped before something really serious happens.
Good luck to you!
2006-07-29 01:04:42 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
man oh man.....go see a counselor, a teacher or call the police. Your dad is abusing you and you need to get you some help.. The YWCA offers help to those who are being abused. They have a crisis center. The YWCA is world wide and you should be able to find one on the net or in your phone book.
www.ywca.com try this link to help you find the nearest YWCA close to where you live. On the web site there is a directory that can help you find the YWCA.
but if the abuse gets out of hand I suggest you go to the police and tell them what is going on.
don't stay where you are being abused.
2006-07-29 01:05:53 · answer #4 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe you are exaggerating and want attention. This is not the way to get it. The way you describe being thrown on the ground would leave marks or bruises somewhere. I've worked wth penty of abused teens and kids. It's not that hard to get a bruise or scratch.
2006-07-29 01:11:11 · answer #5 · answered by kriend 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you cannot get out, then it will continue. I am not sure how old you are but unfortunately you will have to take matters to authorities.
I am 28 now, when I was 14 my dad (who was a drunk and beat the you know what outta me constantly) locked me out one night in the snow with just a tshirt on and no shoes. That did it for me. I snuck back in and took an aluminum baseball bat to him. Broke several ribs and severely hurt him. He never touched me again.
That worked
By the way, I have not seen him in almost 8 years so life does get better when you are on your own.
2006-07-29 01:04:18 · answer #6 · answered by Thetruthbetold 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Go to your school guidance counsler or a trusted adult friend or you can call your local DHHR office and have an investagation started. I am sorry you are going through this and hope you find someone to help you. If all else fails contact an attorney in your area most 1st visits are free and if you find a good one they will direct you to the proper places.
I hope it gets better
2006-07-29 01:30:55 · answer #7 · answered by Katrina Y 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
call cps, at the very least, they'll tell u what to do next while they send someone to investigate. u can also call 911 and tell them to send an ambulance cause ur dad just beat u up. the ppl at the hospital will HAVE to do something. u can also try talking to someone u trust, like a friend's mother who might let u stay for a few days. whatever u do, don't give up.
2006-07-29 16:41:21 · answer #8 · answered by san jose girl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know where you live, but get in touch with Social Services in your area. You can do this by speaking to a teacher or a counselor in school, or going directly to the police. There is no reason for you to put up with that kind of treatment.
2006-07-29 01:02:06 · answer #9 · answered by amymame 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let him know you arent an idiot. show hate and malice towards him when he deserves it. stay away from him.
my mom has a temper similar to that.
i obviously dont recommend counceling from the school because im guessing they will ask him to come in so you all can sit and talk about it.
psh.
why is he hitting you?
And
Does he feel bad after?
2006-07-29 01:51:23 · answer #10 · answered by bethany 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋