Ok so i met this guy 1 month ago and everything is goin more than wonderful. We get along great. Hes a really nice guy and makes me happy. We made out several times but havent had sex yet. Would i be moving too fast if i let him know that i wana have sex or should i wait a little longer?
2006-07-28 17:36:53 · 16 answers · asked by Janelle 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
nah, you sound like an awsome couple so if you're ready have sex, do it! i'm not pushing you but you are 22, a grown up and people like you are supposed to be doing this. plus you've been going out for a month
2006-07-28 18:42:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with the person who asked how old you are. It makes a difference too if you are a virgin. If you are an adult and it's been a month and you really care about him... and more importantly you really feel he cares about you, then I think it would be okay. If you have spent a lot of time together in the past month.. and if you can talk. which I assume cause you said it is going more than wonderful.. I say it is not moving too fast.
2006-07-29 00:42:05 · answer #2 · answered by USAgirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait! what's the rush to have sex? besides which, you're going to feel like crap if you have sex before you're in a commited relationship... what if you guys break up? it's only been a month. how well can you know him if you only met him a month ago? are you guys even exclusive yet?
2006-07-29 00:42:08 · answer #3 · answered by alexitexmexi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex is just sex...you should have as much sex (especially if it's with someone you like, even better!) as you can. Life's too short to keep wondering...just do it! You'll have a blast!
2006-07-29 00:43:24 · answer #4 · answered by kaaaahhh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait until AFTER marriage. That way you know that he loves you and respects you. If he is willing to wait for you and respects you then he is a good choice for you if not, then you didn't want him anyway. But anyway if he truely IS a nice guy and TRUELY LOVES you he'll wait.
2006-07-29 00:41:37 · answer #5 · answered by morman620570 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you think you're ready, go ahead and bring up the topic some time when you're not being intimate, like over dinner, not when you're making out. Then respect his decision, he might not be ready.
2006-07-29 00:40:40 · answer #6 · answered by Kanga_tush2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try two more weeks, then decide how you feel about having sex with him. Of course he may bring it up sooner, but if he doesn't, then it's up to you.
2006-07-29 00:40:42 · answer #7 · answered by johnb693 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow a whole month and the guy hasnt even brought up sex whats him problem?
2006-07-29 00:39:01 · answer #8 · answered by Ashley010 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Spare your sex desire until your marriage and you will surely have a happy life.
2006-07-29 01:12:17 · answer #9 · answered by JOURNEYMAN 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ummm...Abstinance till marriage?
2006-07-29 00:40:37 · answer #10 · answered by H33H! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋