My boyfriend just moved to GA and him and I both lived in Japan. We are in love. I am going to visit him next summer and he is visiting me in 2008 should we take a break or stay together?? and what if i am very faithful and he is sleeping around in GA??
2006-07-28 16:57:48 · 16 answers · asked by luvleylue 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
There's almost no hope for long-distance relationships like that, I'm afraid. It's better to just break up. You need to spend time together to have a successful relationship, unless you're both terribly determined. Good luck!
2006-07-28 17:02:09 · answer #1 · answered by anonymous 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Luv, Im gonna be honest with you. Long distance relationships are not only so hard to have but to manage as well. I have been talking with this girl for the last 6yrs on the phone and via internet and we both talk to each other to this day. We have never met in the 6yrs I have known her. She lives in California and I live in Florida. I thought when I went to Vegas a few months ago we would actually have the chance to meet for the first time. But, due to unfortunate events we were unable to make it happen. We are still hopeful that one day we will finally meet and be able to take this monkey off our backs. As far as the cheating goes, it gonna be up to you whether you believe everything he tells you. I believe that if 2 people are meant to be together then it will happen because fate will allow it to happen. Finds ways to keep in touch with him and always tell him you love him everytime you get the chance. This is not gonna be an easy task by no stretch of the imagination, but anything is possible. In the end, you will have to make the final decision whether you want this long distance relationship to continue. I wish the both of you the best of luck.
2006-07-28 17:22:37 · answer #2 · answered by D.J B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally I probably wouldn't be involved in a relationship of that much distance, but everybody has different limits I guess. The number one thing is trust-if you don't trust each other, this won't work. It will also take a lot of determination and a lot of willpower, but if you really love each other, you'll see it through. Make plans to talk on the phone often, and e-mail each other daily. When you go and visit in the summer, make it a really special time for the two of you, so you can treasure your time together. My guess is if you're meant to be, one of you will make the sacrifice and relocate at some point in the future.
2006-07-28 17:07:36 · answer #3 · answered by jellybean24 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have just been into a long distance relationship , I can tell you that faithfulness is not the answer . Its the determination of both to let your relationship grow and be strong. Trust , faith , love .. what I am saying is if youre meant to be partners for life.. good for you both . Prayers do help !
2006-07-28 17:06:56 · answer #4 · answered by geigy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, if he is sleeping around in GA. then you have your answer...dump him! Long distance relationships don't usually work out, especially when you never see each other. It's one thing if you can get together on weekends or something, but here you won't see each other for a year at the earliest. If it's meant to be, then it will be. But in this case, I would advise you to heal your heart and move on.
2006-07-28 17:02:07 · answer #5 · answered by MadforMAC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait as long as you think you can, then ask to take a break, if you meet someone in between then and when you meet up next... don't ask don't tell. If it's serious, both of you will want the other to know. If you should meet someone... think LONG AND HARD, is this person more important than the men you fell in love with?
2006-07-28 17:00:43 · answer #6 · answered by ooh_rah07 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ohhhh tricky one! Long distance relationships are really hard but that doesn't mean they don't work. If your love for each other is strong you'll survive. But if you're constantly worrying about whether he's cheating on you I say give it a break. Worrying will just put undue stress on your life.
And love finds a way...if its true it'll survive this little break and come back stronger than before.
2006-07-28 17:04:17 · answer #7 · answered by insert pseudonym 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The first thing that is very important in a relationship is the confident, communication and understanding, don't think for him, he might be as faithful as you are, if he doesn't, it means that he never love you with the same intensity that you love him and you have to let him goes.
2006-07-28 17:03:52 · answer #8 · answered by flowermieses@verizon.net 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would take a break and see where you guys are when he comes back. If the love is still there it will be even better the second time around. This way there is no wondering
2006-07-28 17:00:57 · answer #9 · answered by ePCdoctor 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yep you gotta have faith. How long will he be gone? And what part of GA? N-E way talk with him if he's in love he'll be faithful.
2006-07-28 17:08:57 · answer #10 · answered by *Suga* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋