How do you hit on women? Ladies??

Question

I'm 40, in pretty good shape, have always been in LTRs. But I've never been the one to "hit"..I've always been hit on. Now I'm single for over two years, and don't know how to chat up a woman or ask her out. Any tips? I'm not into the bar scene, either.

Answer 1

1st key, be confident, women love a confident guy. if you go up to a girl acting shy it will turn them off in most cases. #2 just go right up and talk to them, keep your eyes on her eyes. Tell her she has pretty eyes. Girls like to be complimented on things that don't include her *** and **** all the time. Remember, CONFIDENCE AND EYE CONTACT.

Answer 2

With a Bouquet of flowers, a nice dinner and an evening at the Theater fot starters! Will cost you $$$$. But you need to take care of the ground if you want the tree to bear good fruits!! So be patient but attentive and play the romantic & sensitive guy (cry on command!!) Otherwise, hit her with a baseball bat!!

Answer 3

First and foremost, women do not want to be "hit" on. We want honest and open communication. If you are attracted to a woman, then go up and strike up a conversation that you are interested and would like to get to know her. It is not that hard. If she is interested then go for it, if she isn't then she isn't the one for you.

Answer 4

this one guy at the store tried to pick up on me, in the soda aisle. how did he do it to get my attention?

he smiled, and kept walking on by, then.. he walked back to me and while he was passing me turned to his son and said.."maybe we should tell her about that thing"..and i just had to know..what thing?..lol.. it was a thing for the soda can, to prop it up inside of the chicken. and i all ready have one, and we started to talk about it... and while talking about it i realize what he had done.

Answer 5

how about the woman u work with......u can always find sum in the mall...