i need help . my bf keeps saying i love u and i say i love u back but idk if i mean it or not help!
2006-07-28 16:43:09 · 12 answers · asked by cassie b 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
quit saying it. don't say it again until you are sure you mean it. and tell him just that. you want to be able to tell him when it is truthfully coming from your heart.
2006-07-28 16:46:51 · answer #1 · answered by lilgracie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well dont say it unless you really mean it, trust me it's very painful when somebody takes those words back. Just tell him you need more time in the relationship before you can say you love him.
2006-07-28 23:48:37 · answer #2 · answered by jellybean24 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if ur not 100% sure u mean it,dump him,hez probly not the 1 4 u,trust me i've been there b4,dumped my bf,and found the love of my life and soon 2 b father of my child
2006-07-28 23:48:18 · answer #3 · answered by InuyashaLover 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
while guys may say these three words to get in a girls' pants, they are special words, that you as a female must respect. You can't just say it back if it's not the truth, then you'd be acting like a guy.
2006-07-28 23:50:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't say it if you don't mean it. If he's asks why you don't say it, tell him the truth. The worst thing you could do to a person is tell them you love them and don't mean it.
2006-07-28 23:47:07 · answer #5 · answered by majorette_mami 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I went through the same thing once and I'm still with him but haven't called him in like weeks I hope he has gone on with his life I know I have. lol. but seriously. I said 'I love you' to him but I know I don't love him so either do what the girls has aready said or just break-up with him. (You don't have to take my advice because its up to you!)
2006-07-28 23:50:59 · answer #6 · answered by *Suga* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
guys fell in love first most of the time
but you need to have some time to your-self
and find out if you do are not
2006-07-28 23:49:05 · answer #7 · answered by ace_71385 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
en,you needed say so,i love u
2006-07-28 23:49:04 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have not encoutered such a problem being a straight guy, but, guys like it when you say it less but mean it, over saying it more, but sounding like a slut
2006-07-28 23:50:06 · answer #9 · answered by usoglf 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't say it if you don't mean it.Or aren't sure he might end up getting hurt if you say it and don't mean it or break up with him
2006-07-28 23:47:12 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋