I want to have a personal relationship with my previous boss.?

Question

I want to have a personal relationship with my boss. When he was still my boss I always felt that he liked me. When his position changed, I invited him to a concert but he did not come. He always applogizes for not coming and says that he had an emergency trip. He surely knows that I want to go out with him but he has never asked me out. He consistently askes me to talk about my feelings for him. We sometimes talk to each other over the phone. Two times he has asked me if I want him to come to my place. i don't understand.. How can he come to my place out of the blue without even having coffee together outside of my place? Does he really like me?

Answer 1

He's married. He doesn't want to be seen in public with you. He says he has an emergency trip, but that's code for "I'm spending time with my wife and kids." He wants to come to your place, because he can choose a time he knows is "safe". He wants you to talk about your feelings for him, because that strokes his ego.

He doesn't really like you. He just wants to get laid.

I'm sorry about this. Look for someone who is available. This guy is feeding you a line.

You deserve better!