can anyone help me please?

Question

my girlfriend and i have been going out for one year and she is away for the weekend. we are still talking but i just feel so lonely without her we have a really strong relationship and i cant stand being without her i really need help on what to do to get me through this weekend

Answer 1

I have a feeling that you are very young. ?When love is young there is much dependence on the other person. Also the relationship is built of being uplifetd and defined by each other. Your meaning for life comes from each other.
As you get older and more sure of yourself, you will have less of a frantic feeling about your lady being gone.
The drama gets less as you age

Answer 2

LOL, i have a girlfriend in the US as well, while now im in Mexico and have been here on vacation for quite some time!, but we still communicate often, and ive been with her for about 2-3 years and have not always been able to see her for those years, she went to a different school than i did, we were gf/bf since middle school then went to different high schools so it was harder to see each other. All you need is a good friend to not feel lonely, even though its not the same of corse, but if its for a short while, you should know not to limit your life to have her by you all the time, feeling lonely isnt easy to get over with, so just try to solve it, spend some time with anyone you can!, even yourself, u can always masturbate (lol !! jk ;) or find an activitity to keep u busy, u can always dream, (if u ask me, i LOVE videogames such as LOTR BFME which keeps me up all night sometimes) so just do soemthing that entertains you, its healthy to get to know yourself too, watch a movie, read a book, watch a show, play, spend time with family or something, its highly recomendable! and also, u might just come up with more ideas if you take your mind off for a while, usually, Humans wont take leadership in a revolution, if their mate wont go with them, or has a different point of view. Im not saying to do a revolution, but it´s healthy to be conciouss about life. When u get married, and have a job, you think that you accomplished a mission and you will have a kid, and work for him and your wife just to live, but the truth is, there are many things to do that are important, this world isnt really straight!, Everyday, there is Corruption, Deaths due to Infections/Viruses, Shi* happens to everybody everyday, some people lose their mate forever. Just think of those things, and maybe one day, you come to be a Governer, like no other, with ideas. Every human in the world with sufficient privliges, should be aware, that there is a compromise to keep the future going healthy, and not be self-absorbant and worry about their own future, no one should excuse themselves by saying its because people wanted it that way. Im pretty sure kids born with a defect isnt cause they want to, or kids who are born from a poor mother working on the streets for money. The world should really be more conciouss. My gf seems to understand perfectly well most of these things, and thats why she´s my girlfriend lol, and one of the things i think stop the advance in the United States, is because of our relationships!, if you dont have a good relation, you cant advance, thats why its important to make a decision, get married with someone you can garuntee, or dont have a relationship at all (of corse, hormones can cause other types of reasons for a temporary relationship) . There are many things still flowing through my brain that you might just have to think of yourself. The world has problems and eveyone cant just ignore it and conform to it. Anyway, good luck with your GF!!! If you really love her, dont cheat ;)

Answer 3

Hey i know exactly how you feel. I had to go away for college this summer and she won't be down here till the fall. I feel the way you do all the time cause we were together 8 months basically everyday and now we never get to see each other. You need to just go find somthing to do or hang out with some friends. Or if you like video games or something like that go rent one and play it. Just try to keep yourself busy and the time will go by and you won't even hardly realize it. Hey man good luck with your girlfriend and relax she will be back in your arms before you know it.

Answer 4

Hey, dude, you're not the only one. My lady has been gone for a month and a week. I still have one more week to wait. It's been hard to be frank. You feel forlorn, emtpty, etc. What I'm doing to get my mind of feeling is cooking, spending time with my cousins, reading a book, write poetryonce in awhile, and other things. Go out with some friends to the movies, something to distract yourself. One week is nothing. Mine ain't either. There are people who go through more, dude. The best thing is for you is to do things that will take your mind off that feeling. I wish you the best, dude. Good Luck!

Answer 5

My boyfriend is gone for the weekend..i ma lonely wihtout him...We talk on the phone, but its not the same. I am in your boat. But i am a girl so my ideas to get me through might not work for you...like I got a pedicure...My sister and I will go see a movie...EXCERSICE running or walking is the best...homework, call old friends, answer all these questions on Yahoo...

just try not to think about it, it'll make it seem longer, when it is not long at all...

Answer 6

I am more or less in the same situation. I was so looking forward to be with my friend this weekend and then he called last night canceling because of some family commitment. So I am catching up with my friends. Some of whom I have not seen for a while and that lifted my spirit a little.

Answer 7

Go out and have some fun, spend some time with family and friends. A weekend goes by fast.

Answer 8

Ah come on, man!! Pull up the skirt and let the balls drop, dude. You can't tell me you don't have any friends, any interests, hell even a job??? Work some overtime, hang out with your buddies, buy a new movie, check out a new movie. If it makes you feel better, write her a poem and spend the time planning a romantic dinner reunion for when she returns.

Answer 9

Dude, just chill! Life is too short to be so attached that you can't be apart for a few days. Find a good book to get stuck in to, or get some friends together and do something with them. I will never understand how people "in love" can't be apart without crying or going crazy because they miss their partner. Grow up! Get over it!

Answer 10

Ouch, this sounds like co-dependence. Do something interesting so you will have something new to talk about when she returns! Look your old buddies up, go to a movie, bowling--anything but sit around and be motionless waiting for her to live. Hearing about a fun outing upon the return will be a lot better than I did nothing but mope.

Answer 11

What happen if you work and your job needs you to do frequent travelling. Are you going to missed her this much also. In life, there are many reasons why people are separated from their loved ones. Death is the worst reason. Please grow up. It is not the end of the world.