his mother may be covering for him but I still feel like I should discover it. If I drive to his house and discover it....then I will know he is a cheater and so will his mother......Is this so wrong....I feel viloated and I'm not the first woman he has done this to....I just want justification....is this so wrong.....
2006-07-28 16:30:46 · 19 answers · asked by JJ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No its not wrong, but his mother won't care, thats her son and what exactly is having justification going to do for you? doesn't change a thing really. if you knew he was a cheater and still dated him you got what was coming to you, or did you think you were special and he wouldn't do that to you? oh goodness, i hope you didn't really fall for that.
2006-07-28 16:35:24 · answer #1 · answered by dappersmom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know exactly how you feel. I discovered all kinds of signs that my bf was cheating, like missing condoms, etc.,etc.! But even though those signs were there, I STILL wanted something concrete..I actually wanted to CATCH him in the act. That was the only way that I felt that I could really believe that he was cheating. Well, last week, I caught him in a lie. I called him to say good night and he told me that he was in the bed about to go to sleep. Something didn't seem right, so I drove over to his place and he wasn't even at home!!! So, yes, I know how you feel! Some people say to just dump him, but if you really love him then it's not that easy!! I think that you should go over and see what's going on..as long as you won't be putting yourself in any danger! If it's YOUR bf then you deserve to know if what you're feeling is true. Maybe it will turn out that cheating is not what's going on, but you need to know if it IS!!!
2006-07-28 23:52:57 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then why stay in this relationship? If you don't trust him what is the point? It will just hurt both of you.
I am not on anybody's side but I always believe trust is part of good relationship. Without it - no matter what he does good or bad you will always doubt him.
Save yourself the aggravation and just move on.
2006-07-28 23:36:18 · answer #3 · answered by Zail-Em 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What will you get by seeing your "person" with someone else? Will it make it more real? Who cares what his mother thinks? This is so messed up. He's cheating on you.....leave him.....get yourself some therapy so you'll be better prepared to pick the next "person".
2006-07-28 23:35:00 · answer #4 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your time is worth more than catching him. YOU are better than he is and move on. Drop him like a hot potato.
I am sorry that this happened to you - it hurts and it doesn't feel good. Move on, hold your head high, and don't give him any more of your time. You are WAY too GOOD for him.
2006-07-28 23:35:53 · answer #5 · answered by 'Barn 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no you have a right to know, because if he his, he may not be protecting his self. drive to his house . if he's done this before, he's probally doing it to you. once a cheater always a cheater..
2006-07-28 23:35:26 · answer #6 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
believe me his mother know and she'll keep covering, but if you still want to catch him then do it with someone that you can say you were doing the same with
2006-07-28 23:34:20 · answer #7 · answered by MARIA M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just leave him. Do you really want to have this drama all the time? If you can't trust him, what is the point?
2006-07-28 23:32:55 · answer #8 · answered by Blunt Honesty 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't waste the time,energy,or the gas. just move on.
2006-07-29 00:05:51 · answer #9 · answered by rememberingdad2002 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no it's not wrong to want answers. I would say to go see for yourself.
2006-07-28 23:37:36 · answer #10 · answered by moongirl1980 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋