With society today, why does sex rule all?its what we watch, eat, wear? Is it really about love or is it about getting off?? is it truly wrong to sleep with a bunch of different people? does it make a difference if u sleep with one person 100 times or once with a hundred people, if your doing it safely. whats your opinion?
2006-07-28 16:21:28 · 24 answers · asked by jamaicanstar1971 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sex rules all because it is the most pleasurable thing you can do and nothing compares to it. You could live to be a 100 and you still won't be able to explain the feeling you have when you have sex. I would rather sleep with 1 person 100 times for the simple reason of I would like to board the train without seeing at least 29 people I've slept with in the same car.
2006-07-28 16:29:58 · answer #1 · answered by Tzipor 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First off, there is no such thing as "safe sex"! There really isn't! Today's society has gotten disgusting with the amount of sexual things we see: ads, commercials, the mall...I mean regular every day things that people see and SO many of them are sex-based. It's wrong for people to sleep with a whole bunch of different people, and I think humans have totally lost sight on that! I mean, has anyone heard that there are over 100 different types STD's that you can get by sleeping with different people?? Every person that you sleep with, who has slept with someone else before, and that person who has slept with somebody else who might have gotten an STD is then just passing it along to you. It's REALLY dangerous and I think people need to realize it...
2006-07-28 16:26:38 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, the main reason that I know of is that it appeals to man's (meaning ALL of us humans not just the males) primal instincts. Plus, we are taught that sex is bad when we're young, and that might cause rebellion in some. Sex SHOULD be about love, as it is a sacred ordenance given to us by God. It should ONLY be between a male and a female who can call themselves a husband and a wife through marriage. It is medically as well as spiritually wrong to sleep with a bunch of people or even just one other person who is not your spouse. No matter what, if you are not married to the person(s) you are having sex with, you run the risk of stds, pregnancy, and other medical problems. Sometimes you can end up with Stds and medical problems even if you have only had one partner. You also should avoid pornography and self-stimulation, even though many consider these harmless, these can lead to phsyciatric (sp) disorders and addiction. Oh and by the way there is NO such thing as SAFE sex. The only true way to be safe is to be abstenant.
2006-07-28 16:39:46 · answer #3 · answered by morman620570 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think sex has anything to do with what I eat. For me it's about being in love, I choose not to have sex until I'm married. Yes, it's wrong to sleep with a bunch of different people. When I marry my husband, I will sleep with him and only him, the number of times doesn't matter, so long as I do not stray. Safely... I should not have to worry about safety if I am with my husband.
2006-07-28 16:25:25 · answer #4 · answered by ooh_rah07 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, not doing it and I never cared too! To risky both emotionally and physically! You would have the question of rather or not its wrong or right yourself, but I can bet that you would not feel to good about yourself if you decide to sleep w/ a bunch of people? Then again I have never slept w/ a bunch of people. Society is all about what feels good, screw the consequences, who's to say its wrong? Well, with that mentality how do you know what's wrong or what's right? Get's very confusing don't you think?!
2006-07-28 16:31:38 · answer #5 · answered by sharky_13_13 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My oppinion is that sex is the bottom line motivation for almost all human social interactions. Think about it: guys, when you are talking to a girl how many times do you look down at her boobs? And girls, how often do you just casually flirt with someone for no apparent reason? Why do we do these things? We do these things because all humans are attracted to things that in some way will make them happy or bring them pleasure in one form or another. The bottom line of all b/f g/f relationships is sex and no one can deny it either. All this buisness about finding your soulmate and love is just BS because eventually all you are thinking about is sex which is probably subconciously why you started the relationship in the first place. So, essentially, sex feels good so people will do whatever they need to do to get it. People also like to see it ( i havent the foggiest idea as to why this is) so, they throw it all over TV and commercials because if you linger sex as a prize over anything people will go and get it to have sex or at least get closer to having sex. Just my thoughts on this one
2006-07-28 16:36:16 · answer #6 · answered by Sparky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
F*** society. Do what you want to. If others don't like it, F*** them. It's a free society too. You want to sleep with a hundred men go for it but make sure you have room and take a break after every 10.
2006-07-28 16:24:16 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You asked! Anyone who sleeps with a hundred people is a piece of trash!! Our society is all about sex, and it is a shame. Love, romance, passion and the things that matter are brushed aside. Life is so much better with one person who loves you and who you love than hopping from bed to bed. That is a shallow existence.
2006-07-28 16:26:01 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course sex rules our society, because we let it. Go out, have fun, make sure you dont purposefully hurt anyone and make sure you are your only responsibility. I did it and I had a blast and I would do it again in an instant if I hadnt found the love of my life. Just be prepared to face any consequences to the behaviour that you choose!!!!
2006-07-28 16:30:09 · answer #9 · answered by Vicky B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex is what you make it. Unfortunately, society has made it bigger than what it should be. I think that it's up to you on how you feel about sleeping with different people or how many times. To me, it really shouldn't be anyone's business who you sleep with. What goes on behind closed doors should stay behind them.
2006-07-28 16:27:20 · answer #10 · answered by cat and mouse 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋