have u ever been forced to do something u did not wanna do....I was...and I feel so embarrased about..?

Question

I...spent the night with a guy i did not like....he put something in my drink and I felt so strange...that I could not possibly be stood..now...I feel so ashame...ai told him I was gonna tell what he did to me...but he says he did not force me...because I was concious when he did that to me...What would u do in my case..? HELP...ME

Answer 1

You may have been concious but if you said no and did not want it, it is rape. Call the cops and report him. I would also go to the doctor, if that stuff is still in your system you have even more of a case against him.

Answer 2

DO THE RIGHT THING. I would do all I could to fix his sorry ***. That means go to the cops. After all, will you feel bad when he uses the drugs on a 12 year old or an 8 year old or other girls. AND you Know He Will!!!! Turn the f***ing punk in and let him know he cannot do things like that-----to anyone. Another thing, if you do not do anything about it and he does it to others, then you're guilty of helping him by your very silence. Think hard about that. DO the right thing!!! And, don't tell him you are gonna do it because he will just talk you out of it and you know it. Just do it and keep your mouth shut. March your little butt down to the police department, talk to a detective or a DA, let him/her know the circumstances and details and they will handle it from there. Send the mf the message that he cannot just breeze through life happily victimizing helpless people. You were not "awake". He damn sure better be glad you aren't my kid or he would find himself with the world's biggest enema/M80 combination.

Answer 3

I'm really sorry; what a jerk. You need to stay away from that guy...if he's gonna force you into things that you do NOT want to do than clearly he is not a guy you want to be around. With the drugging and all, I would report him. I would talk to someone too, other than people on Yahoo Answers. It might be good just to let out some of this emotion and the stress of a situation that you go through. I don't mean go and get a counselor, but get a private mentor or an old, wiser friend of yours and make sure he/she knows that you need this to be strictly one-on-one therapeutic thing for you. It's good to get something that was really hard for you out in the open. Good luck and know that there are people who care about what happened to you and really want to help you!

Answer 4

Calling the police will work if it happened recently and they can test your blood for drug toxins. If not it's gonna be your word against his. I'm not saying you shouldn't tell, I just know it will be hard to prove. At least make the police aware of what he did to you.

Answer 5

Let this be a lesson. Next time, do not go to parties and drink strange drinks. Do not be a fool twice.

Answer 6

call the cops. u can tell them that he put something on your drink. dont be afraid or ashamed. what u waiting for make the call.

Answer 7

File a police report. Bring the drink with you if you still have it. He may have done it to other women too. Get HIV checkup. Get pregnancy checkup.

Answer 8

TELL ANYWAY,He drugged you.You have nothing to ashamed about,tell the cops,your parents,some body that will help you figure out what to do.

Answer 9

You said he put something in your drink. THAT wasn't your consent. He DRUGGED you, honey! I'd call the police and haul his sorry, pathetic @ss away!

Answer 10

Drugged? Sounds criminal to me! Report this predator! To late for you, save someone else!