my crush, who knows i like him told me he's bi, and i'm okay with that but now he says he won't date me because a girl really hurt him so he thinks he is going to just date guys. so now he has a boyfriend who is REALLY protective of him and doesn't like us talking. He says he doesn't know if he still wants to be gay or not. his boyfriend really hates me and my crush acts totally different when he is around this "boyfriend" of his. Should i wait and see if his mind changes or move on?
2006-07-28 15:45:13 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
we've been on a date or two..and he acted like he liked me and then this poped up. its sooo weird
2006-07-28 15:49:25 · update #1
his boyfriend is more girly then i am..but he has started to answer my crush/friend's phone and he's like why do you want to talk to (we'll call him "Jake") and he says he can decide who "jake" talks to.
2006-07-28 15:59:39 · update #2
sorry girl, i've been in a similar situation a time or two. (i tend to be attracted to gay and bi guys.) i say move on. the longer you wait, the more you are going to want him and if in the end he still doesn't want to be with you, you will be crushed. cut your ties now. this is coming from experience. if you hang around and even if he does still want you around as a friend. 10 years later when you are best friends with him you will realize he is still the love of your life and you still can't do anything about it.
i like to be optimistic but maybe if you start seeing another guy now, he might get jealous and want you.
2006-07-28 15:51:11 · answer #1 · answered by lilgracie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A male that has a boyfriend is one sign that he is gay. In the long run moving on would be the best thing to do. You don't want to be a fag hag that actually has a crush on your fag.(It doesn't workout in the movies and it ain't going to workout in real life.)
Bottom line: In this day and age of experimentation and sexual orientation confession and culture shock. Young teens can focus on the new and enlighten path called getting an education. Wow education really does pay off in the end. It practically pays for it's self in job earnings. Plus you can take what you've learned anywhere at anytime. Hey, there is a lot of women wishing they had of thought of that when they where in school.
2006-07-28 15:56:45 · answer #2 · answered by calmlikeatimebomb 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the way he taks and walks and how he looks at guys and how he dresses maybe does things and well that's it. He's just a crush, move on, but then make him your best friend, my best friend is gay and me and him have a blast, having a gay guy frined is so fun. come to think of it, it's spa night today!!!!!!!! he he he . hot rock treatment!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-07-28 15:56:05 · answer #3 · answered by Tomato 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A lot of people's partners have a huge affect on their free will, especially in this case it seems. I would suggest giving up on this guy for now because he doesn't seem so stable as it is, especially because of his partner being so restricting.
2006-07-28 15:48:38 · answer #4 · answered by DreamingOfAttack 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, as he has issues that are very deep and you sure do not want to deal with all the drama!!!! There are great guys out there that do not have these "gay" issues. Have fun!!!!
2006-07-28 15:48:37 · answer #5 · answered by mustanglady 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no such thing as making up ur mind, u reither straight o ur gay, he is obviously gay, move on!
2006-07-28 15:50:17 · answer #6 · answered by macho c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on, who know how long he's going 2 b with his bf. it might even be years!! you never know. Especially move on if he doesnt seem interested in you.
2006-07-28 15:50:29 · answer #7 · answered by Anna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do you really want to date a gay guy or a straight guy?
2006-07-28 15:49:54 · answer #8 · answered by Victoria J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girls are too needy and emotional and really hard too understand, that's probably his reasoning in choosing guys over girls.
2006-07-28 15:50:05 · answer #9 · answered by peziord 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
make him your best friend, and have him do your hair:) another plus of having him as best friend: maybe he will come around and like girls.
2006-07-28 15:49:10 · answer #10 · answered by musi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋