he wants to be with me. But lately hes been saying im actin annoying, and that i do dumb things. Weve talked about it. But i need some advice. I was thinkin about giving him some space, but i dont know how to approach with it. We are both still in love with each other, and all that mushy stuff. I hate getting on his nerves, and im tired of him saying im acting dumb, or annoying everytime were together. HHHEEELLPPP MMMEEEE! u can email at harlemms212@aol.com if you like or post it on here.
2006-07-28 15:35:12 · 17 answers · asked by Dezzy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
space seems to be what you need i dont know if you work or not but if not find a job that gives him 8 hours a day to have space and you a chance to see for yourself there just might be more out there then you can see right now.
2006-07-28 15:42:15 · answer #1 · answered by patbgone 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No offense but he sounds like he is getting tired of you and just doesn't have the nerve to tell you yet. Don't ever let anyone tell you that you are dumb. If he loves you so much, he wouldn't hurt you like that. You deserve so much more. Give him some space and I bet he runs. You'd be better off, love is not making your mate feel dumb or annoying. He needs to grow up and be honest with you as to what is going on for real. I wish you the best (I don't think it is him though)
2006-07-28 15:41:22 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My boyfriend and I were going through the exact same thing. I told him that if he couldn't explain why I was acting dumb and annoying that I couldn't fix it. Then I suggested a break, sometimes, breaks can help people put a new perspective on things. Sometimes breaks show you how much you love a person, and sometimes they show you that you can have better. Also, it shows you how much your guy wants to be with you, or if he is just fed up and tired of you personally. I know that sounds harsh, but sometimes that's how guys are. If it helps, the break between my boy and I ended with both of us so miserable without each other that we got back together. It's all up to you, but I hope this helps.
2006-07-28 15:43:57 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you live together? That could be an indicator right there that you both need some space. Do you both work? If not, one or both of you need to get a job. Too much togetherness will drive you crazy. They say absence makes the heart grow fonder, give him time to miss you. My sister had a three year rule. If the man she was with was getting on her nerves after three years she'd cut him loose. If you don't want that to happen you need to do something different. Get a hobby, volunteer, join a gym or just do something that gets you out of your rut !
2006-07-28 15:53:40 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I just went through the same thing with my bf of 11/2 years. Space is a good thing. It helped us out a lot. We were able to see how much we missed each other. Just keep working through the arguments and everything and eventually things will get back to the way they used to be. But I think space helped a lot in our relationship because we were also able to think and recompose ourself so we wouldn't say stupid things to each other in the heat of the moment that we can't take back.
2006-07-28 15:40:44 · answer #5 · answered by lilgracie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U know maybe if he thinks U R annoying then he sould have some space, and maybe U will meet someone who doesn't think U say dumb things or think U R annoying. then maybe after U haven't been with U'r man for awhile, he will start missing U.
U know what they say -- U don't know what U got til U lose it, right !!
2006-07-28 15:41:08 · answer #6 · answered by moe 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my son does it. he has adhd no i'm no longer saying ur toddler does. yet we've consistently word because he grow to be like 5. we had him regarded at for it. come to be certain my toddler has adolescence tics that we grow to benefit will strengthen out of it extra. we talked to my youngster's Dr approximately his blinking and she or he set him up with a neurologist expert that took lots of try. ur toddler ought to have the comparable issue or would have tolerates syndrome. which if it dont computer virus him then dont hardship approximately it. my son used eye drops too reason at instances he blinked lots his eyes may be purple. one way they knew he had it reason while a toddler does have it they dont recognize they are blinking yet while u say something they attempt to no longer blink and function a tendency to blink much extra. attempt to no longer say something to ur son approximately it while hes doing it. it won't final as lengthy if u component it out. additionally enable ur toddlers instructors recognize that way they dont think of hes being a clever butt. my son would be 15 in a month and doesnt infrequently even do it now. in basic terms while hes under pressure now.
2016-12-14 15:49:51 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You two need some time a part. you guys don't have to spend every free moment together. your already getting tired of each other to soon.spend a couple days taking on the phone,and don't see each other for those days.
2006-07-28 15:48:46 · answer #8 · answered by *Shy Girl* 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How can you say this guy loves you?
If he is putting you down, calling you dumb, saying you get on his nerves.........does that sound like love to you?
Anytime a bf or gf for that matter is putting you down, calling you names and stuff like that it is called EMOTIONAL AND VERBAL ABUSE........that is NOT love.
2006-07-28 15:43:06 · answer #9 · answered by ETxYellowRose 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him what you're doing to act annoying. Than try to change it. Personally I think he's getting bored with you.
2006-07-28 15:39:14 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋