2006-07-28 15:34:41 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you have to confess, do it to a priest. Telling him is only going to hurt him and probably destroy the relationship. Keep it to yourself, telling him is just going to explode in huge emotions that probably won't do anything but create hard feelings.
2006-07-28 15:42:21 · answer #1 · answered by JFra472449 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should not tell him, unless you want the relationship to be over. You want to tell him because you know it was wrong and you're feeling guilty. You either have to live with this guilt, in silence, or tell him, and possibly loose him. Telling him will only create problems. If you find yourself cheating on him later in the future, you should do the honorable thing, break up with him, and admit to yourself that you aren't ready to be serious yet.
2006-07-28 22:36:55 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello there, What I thinik is you should be open and up front about what you have done b/c if not and he finds out then you mite as well kiss him good bye, Honesty is the best thing to do b/c then he knows he will be able to trust you and trust is a must in any relationship without trust it will be doomed to fail, take that to heart.
2006-07-28 22:50:57 · answer #3 · answered by bear 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
May be the reason u don't know how to tell him is, because u shouldn't tell him. U will be making a mistake if u tell him, because he's gonna never trust u again and he may even dump u . So u should take this to the grave sweetie.
2006-07-28 22:40:29 · answer #4 · answered by itspink22@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes i just got dumped for hanging out with an ex bf. i didnt physically cheat but he was very hurt. he said if i wouldve told him i hung out with the guy right away it wouldnt of been a big deal. but the fact that i didnt it seemed like i was hiding something bad. learn from my mistake and tell him. it will only eat alive inside.
2006-07-28 22:39:30 · answer #5 · answered by hazellaura 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes by all means tell him because obviously you didn't love him enough not to cheat. So tell him you will not regret it and he will appreciate your honesty. Or he could dump you like the hoe that you are.
2006-07-28 22:43:47 · answer #6 · answered by SANDY 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't tell. I believe there are things you should tell and things you shouldn't tell. even if you tell, he will only be hurt and you can't take back what you have done. What's done is done, the only thing you can do is stop the damage. don't tell him(which stops the affair from hurting his feeling), then don't do it anymore!
2006-07-28 22:41:32 · answer #7 · answered by musi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should tell him..... wouldn't you want to know if he cheated on you?
2006-07-28 22:41:13 · answer #8 · answered by Coodles 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
trust and honesty are importand for a good relationship, tell him
2006-07-28 22:39:42 · answer #9 · answered by rachael01181990 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wasnt there.... we didnt do anything... thats my story
2006-07-28 22:38:30 · answer #10 · answered by Reverand Ray 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋