2006-07-28 15:30:34 · 33 answers · asked by David G 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
That depends on what kind of woman you're asking. For me, I want a guy who's going to take care of me, emotionally, physically, and financially. Now I'm not saying he has to pay for everything but when it comes time to settle down, I don't want to be the one supporting him. I'll help with the bills and everything but the majority should come from him. I want a kind, respectable guy who has plans for the future career wise. He knows what he wants and he's not afraid to risk everything to get it. Of course I want a faithful guy, who doesn't. Not having to worry about him cheating would take a huge load off of any woman's shoulders. Someone who can have deep, meaningful conversations is always good as well.
What is it that men want?
2006-07-28 15:35:08 · answer #1 · answered by youdontknowme 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To be treated with respect if it's a friend.
If it's the love of your life, the respect is a given and mutual but also to be your best friend. (Not to say you don't have other good friends as well) To know that if you are angry, or upset or disappointed, even at them, you will feel comfortable sitting down and venting what's on your mind with us and we will listen without interrupting, making excuses, or getting immature and try to understand you better. To be sensitive to our needs, know when we both need some couple time and when one or both of will need some individual time be.
I guess you could say the same thing a man is looking for in a woman. And when you find that person, you know it because everything above falls into place so comfortably like you've known each other forever.
2006-07-28 15:37:43 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well david, you kinda gotta go with what you think and a little of what you feel. I am not sure they know either but what ever you do do it with an open mind and and a loving heart and you might help her find it at the same time you do. You will be a hero. You might not but even if you don't find it the effort you show will make her smile at you and bring peace to her heart and maybe amuse her for a short time. Maybe that is the key. As long as she is smiling you are close to doing the right thing.
2006-07-28 15:36:34 · answer #3 · answered by andyman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To be honest -- been there-- I think women want attention, those little remarks that make us feel special, sexy, and wanted. NOT WHORES - But keep in mind that it is the little things that matter, not money all the time. Just hold the hand, keep smiling, and give a little wink every now and then.
2006-07-28 15:41:25 · answer #4 · answered by laura k 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Someone that will amaze me each day and has a curiosity about life. A guy with nice biceps. He should be tall, dark, handsome and quietly sensual and should actually know when to be so without me telling him. He should like to cook - but let me drive. He should exhibit compassion and honesty, yet know how to take charge when it's time. I could go on, but...there are more Q. to A. Good luck!
2006-07-28 15:39:57 · answer #5 · answered by Lake Lover 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A mechanic in the garage, a stud in the bedroom and stay out the kitchen unless you are taking the garbage out.
Oh and Mel Gibson not to screw up my best pantyhose!!
2006-07-28 15:34:33 · answer #6 · answered by phantasy_one 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As the joke goes, that depends on age. At 15, we want attention. At 25, we want love. At 35, we want money.
We want it all!
2006-07-28 15:38:03 · answer #7 · answered by Snowflake 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
many things. stability, love, trust, a good cup of tea (oh, just me?), contradicting things. You're generalizing too much, and this is one of those questions with far too many answers.
And the first girl has a good idea...watch the movie...it's quite true.
So, what do men want?
2006-07-28 15:38:41 · answer #8 · answered by secrets_in_mind3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a tough guy bad boy that treats them like ****,and cheats on them ,just aslong as he looks hawt,its on !Then the poor nice guys are left in the cold being so nice and still wondering why the ladies don't want to be with them.Sorry to be sarcastic but it is true it is a shallow sick world we live in and woman want bad boys that are *** holes,sad but true
2006-07-28 15:35:45 · answer #9 · answered by ocean currants 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first they want flowers. then they want everything from you. loyalty. friendship. stuff that is impossable for guys to provide without messing up. they know this. it's a horrible cycle. they know you are going to mess up, and once you do, they get MORE flowers. it's the only way they can get someone else to provide them with an expensive hobby...
2006-07-28 15:38:03 · answer #10 · answered by yan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋