im dateing this guy and i like him but im not sure that i like him like 100%, what should i do?
2006-07-28 15:27:27 · 26 answers · asked by BrownEyedQT 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if you don't like him, then its not fair on him. Because he likes you and he thinks you like him back. I break up but tell him, he didn't do any thing wrong, it was you and your feels, ect.
2006-07-28 15:32:18 · answer #1 · answered by vicky 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
You're not going to marry him, right?
You're young. You need to find out what works for you. You'll never know if you only pick people you think you like 100% because he's not out there yet. He won't be until you find out what you are truly searching for. If you date this less-than-100% guy you might be able to determine exactly what that other x% is and make certain it's there with the next one. Of course, he's probably going to be missing y% but you won't know how important that is -- or isn't -- until you date him.
In other words, don't limit yourself to the unobtainable. Just enjoy life and the people around you until you suddenly discover, "WOW, this is the one." And because you've dated others, you'll be able to recognize him.
2006-07-28 22:33:55 · answer #2 · answered by CarolO 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Should you MARRY a guy you don't like 100%, probably not a good idea. But should you DATE a guy you don't like 100%, why not? If you are enjoying your dates and being treated well... what do you have to lose? I'd keep my eyes open for someone you may like more, but in the interim, enjoy what you have... maybe your feelings will change to like him more in time? That's the whole purpose of dating, isn't it?
2006-07-28 22:33:11 · answer #3 · answered by wendyc222 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How can you know whether you like him 100% when you don't really know him and are just getting started in that process? If you hold out for 100% you will end up with yourself.
2006-07-28 22:29:59 · answer #4 · answered by kerangoumar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to decide if you want him to grow on you, or if you want to leave him now, before you're too afraid to hurt his feelings.
Besides that, you could just wait it out, it might be beacuse his personality isn't what you're used too, maybe he's a little differant and that makes you uncomfortable in a way that you wont allow yourself to fully accept him.
Get to know him more, if he's a possative inpact on your life, and he's a good person, it might be worth it. Sometimes females tend to not like guys who are too easy to be with, because its a completely new concept.
2006-07-28 22:33:58 · answer #5 · answered by anjui63 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you like him enough to enjoy his company, go out with him. If you dislike him completely --- say "no." The thing is, if it is a new relationship....you don't have any idea of knowing where it could lead. I've heard people say they couldn't stand their spouses when they were younger but then ended up "clicking." If you are turned off completely or anything, then just say no thank you.
2006-07-28 22:30:45 · answer #6 · answered by butterfliesRfree 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will never find a man you like 100% is this a trick question?
2006-07-28 22:30:55 · answer #7 · answered by c g 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dating is fine, but do not take it too far or lead him on if you know it's not going to get serious. That's not fair to him. If you know you don't want a relationship, tell him that up front. He might not want to hear it, but the truth is always better.
2006-07-28 22:30:27 · answer #8 · answered by Derrrr 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps you're just a little bit confused about your feelings. I don't think that it calls for a break-up, though. See how the relationship goes and cut it off if you really feel as though you don't like him "enough".
2006-07-28 22:31:46 · answer #9 · answered by Aimers 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I ended up marrying a young man with whom I didn't like entirely and 7 years later, we divorced.
2006-07-28 22:45:00 · answer #10 · answered by p2sgirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do you mean by Like??? Like him as a person or like him as physical attraction, you're not sure you are attracted to him? Either way, get to know him first, don't judge by physical appearance. If you don't like him as a person, then yes ...you move on!
2006-07-28 22:58:34 · answer #11 · answered by MissShorty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋