my doctor who i have posted about before is still flirting. it doesn't bother me in any way, actually i am rather attracted to him. people say to me all the time that he may be flirting with other patients as well, and honestly that doesn't bother me. im not trying to have a relationship with this dude who is like 20 years older than i am. i am just attracted to him and the attention he shows me. some say that he is just being nice, i am 24 years old and i have been to the doctor plenty of times and no doctor has ever treated me like this,, and a lot of them have been'' nice''. i want to tell him the next time i see him that he is adorable and that i have a crush on him because he is always the one doing all of the flirting and calling..but i heard that they can get into a lot of trouble for doing that.. which is probably one of the reasons why he tests me by throwing comments here and there and hints here and there. is telling him that i have a crush on him wrong?or should i not
2006-07-28 15:12:33 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
also, why would someone who can get into sooo much trouble for flirting with female patients... still do it? it isso weird to me.
2006-07-28 15:13:29 · update #1
He is acting highly unprofessional and unethical. Yes, he could be censored and put his career in jeopardy. Be sensible and get another doctor immediately. The guy is a predator and you can be certain he is doing it to other patients. He is arrogant enough to know that young and impressionable women will be flattered by his attention and the "Dr." before his name. Chances are he is married, too. And yes, it is wrong, because you are playing with fire and it will go further with every little bit of encouragement you give him.
2006-07-28 18:54:47 · answer #1 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think this doctor is going to end up flirting with the wrong lady and get into a whole lot of trouble. If you are going to tell him something like that, ask him for his number and call him when he is not working.
2006-07-28 15:19:02 · answer #2 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is a weirdo and get away from him as soon as you can. Doctor's are not supposed to flirt with their patients no matter what so don't fall for this wack job's game. He does it with many women don't kid yourself!
2006-07-28 15:17:28 · answer #3 · answered by dt 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oooh, dangerous territory. just tell him that you can only be friendly in the workplace. if he asks you out on a date, than go for it. if he continues flirting with you during appointments, tell him to continue it over coffee after work.
2006-07-28 15:19:34 · answer #4 · answered by Bosquet 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you tell him of the crush you are opening a door...
2006-07-28 15:15:37 · answer #5 · answered by Erik E 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
b/c hes a sexual predator. and yes you are cheating. i hope you boyfriend is balls deep in your sister right now
2006-07-28 15:18:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋