i worry over every little thing. G.A.D. general anxiety disorder...like i show up to work 20 minutes early so i make sure im not late...it sucks, so when it comes to dating, im nervous as hell...idk what to do, some one give me some advice, and feel free to make fun of me....but its true i need some help
2006-07-28 15:08:45 · 11 answers · asked by John 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
NO NEED TO MAKE FUN OF YOU. what you are feeling is normal and natural. Just relax and be calm. Be yourself. Good luck
2006-07-28 15:10:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everybody gets nervous about asking someone out. If you are going to let your emotions get in the way, you will never get anything done. You'll wind up sixty and single. Leaving for work so that you get there early is called conscientiousness. It saves you from getting tied up in traffic and arriving late. Get over yourself. Pick up the phone and ask her out. If you can handle a job interview, you can handle making a phone call and asking a question.
2006-07-28 22:18:01 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is only one way to find out, you NEVER know what's going to happen.. why not take a chance..is she worth it? If she is, isn't better to see what could happen than to never know? I'm the type who would never ask a guy out, I'm very old fashioned, just my upbringing, and alot of girls are like this, so my advice is just do it! just go for it!!! I think probably the more you do it, the easier it becomes, but don't just ask random girls out, mean it. Good luck:)
2006-07-28 22:15:17 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps you can try something like a double date, so you won't be alone with her. It's normal to be nervous to be with someone you really like, and I'm sure this happens to every one. Some people are better at hiding their nervousness. But who knows, she may find your nervousness attractive and even cute!!! You can be totally honest with her about your nervousness. I'm sure she'll find your sincerity very touching. Best wishes.
2006-07-28 22:14:23 · answer #4 · answered by CRT 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have the same promlbe. I turn up to everyone think about 15 to 10 mins early. I think the best think to do is to plan what you have to do and then try not to leave to ealy. Is hard but just try.
2006-07-28 22:13:28 · answer #5 · answered by vicky 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Awwhh just go ahead and move forward. You will get over the initial fear and it will turn into energy like no one has ever seen before. You will become so manly and powerful that your girl will fall madly in love with you!
2006-07-28 22:14:52 · answer #6 · answered by dt 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, "player" is wrong. hey, i like to be early too. when it comes to girls, be around them as much as possible. maybe hang out w/ some female family members, talk to girls that you could only consider as friends, get confortable around the opposite sex.
2006-07-28 22:14:35 · answer #7 · answered by Bosquet 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-07-28 22:14:02 · answer #8 · answered by babiie_gurl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
welcome to the club, i am very nervous to but have friends help u out, write her a letter, u wont have to ask in front of her face, just do that for a while until ur comfortable
2006-07-28 22:11:12 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Rely on the hand and porn sites my friend.
2006-07-28 22:11:52 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋