GIRLS WITH BRAINS AND SELF CONFIDENCE!!!
2006-07-28 15:04:50
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answer #1
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answered by Anonymous
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I see this question on Yahoo, or a variant thereof, all the time. All I can tell you is that, ultimately, guys want the same things that girls do... love, security, emotional support, etc. However, guys are also just as insecure as girls when it comes to figuring out how to get those things. The main difference, as far as I can discern, is that guys and girls go about getting what they ultimately want in a different manner. Men seem to use love to get sex while women use sex to get love. Some men, and some women, are just jerks. You will need to develop a facility for weeding out the jerks from the decent people. For some folks, that is a tough trick to master.
The unwritten question underlying the one you have posed is "what do I have to do to get a guy?" The answer is that you need to be yourself. Unless you do something completely gross, freaky, or completely psycho-clingy, given time you will find someone to love you, respect you and treat you well. Be patient. While you wait, however, try to relax and have some fun.
2006-07-28 22:12:49
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answer #2
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answered by Anonymous
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From what I've observed in 48 yrs, most American guys are pretty shallow when it comes to relationships... They want a maid, love slave, trophy woman, angel when he's with company that he wants to impress but a devil who can't get enough sex in the sack... For far too many men, they feel "entitled" and as thought the world revolves around them and that it's ALL about them... But, that's not what love and emotional intimacy is about (and most of them apparently couldn't care less... Just as long as they can catch the game on the tube, got a fridge full of beer, and someone to pick up after their lazy butt...!)...
Somewhere out there, there's a bunch of nice guys pining away for a nice girl, but she's usually trying to land the bad boy and wondering why she feels so miserable all the time...
Don't get me started...!
2006-07-28 22:14:45
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answer #3
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answered by KnowhereMan 6
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Every guy wants something a little different than the next. Some like submissive, some like assertive, some like giggling girls, some like serious ones.
The only thing you can say we all want is sex and food.
Me, I'm picky. I want all of the above at varying times of the day. Able to speak her mind, but knows that I'm in charge, that can laugh at my bad jokes, and seriously discuss world topics, that is a total, abject s*ut in the bedroom, but can part a crowd with her poise and class.
2006-07-28 22:06:44
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answer #4
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answered by cloaked30m 3
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we want a girl who isn't a ditz, someone who doesn't amuse herself with playing love games or stringing some guy on by kinky love triangles or odd behavior. We want a girl who is positive and enthusiastic, not all into herself. Not thinking, "It's all about me." one who isn't primarily concerned with how "he" can please "me" and do this for me, and make ME happy, but has transcended to a higher life form and has graduated to the word...."us" No longer thinking long range with a contingency plan in case things go sour and you have to find someone else. It's half your fault if it fails. But it's also half your responsibility to make it work. It's real work. We want a girl who will pitch in and use her cell phone to call and not just be called. To show up, to show some interest, to be there when he needs her, not just when she needs something. To meet us halfway. We want a mature human being and not some . Someone who isn't going to bail at the first sign of trouble or when we make a mistake or say something weird. In other words, bring back the 50's. They don't make them like that anymore.
2006-07-28 22:12:22
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answer #5
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answered by Morpheus 3
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different guys different interests. Generally, guys are drawn to confident girls. Even though they could act like they want a girl that's easy to attain, in reality they want a girl that's hard to get. It's the truth. Girls are like apples. The best ones are at the top but most guys are lazy so they get the sluts at the bottom.
2006-07-28 22:06:55
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answer #6
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answered by Yuri ^_^ 5
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men are somtimes funny when it comes to females some men want a mom figure ans some men want freaky women and some like funny and older it all depends on whats inside that person presonally i like them all funny,older,
2006-07-28 22:11:57
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answer #7
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answered by just wondering 1
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i like older and funny woman
2006-07-28 22:05:28
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answer #8
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answered by tattoo282001 3
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Funny shows she has a sense of humor,
Older shows she may have some direction in life,
Or what..........well yeah, they want that most.
2006-07-28 22:09:06
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answer #9
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answered by dadnnelle 3
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They don't really know what they want. They will tell you all this general things like smart and self-confident. Good, right. However, a few million of girls fit that description. Which leads us to conclusion: they don't really know exactly what they want. So decide what YOU want instead.
2006-07-28 22:13:00
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answer #10
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answered by Snowflake 7
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We love smart, funny girls, some like me like challenges, so i like the hard to get ones!
2006-07-28 22:06:35
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answer #11
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answered by macho c 1
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