my girl friend is currently 8 weeks pregnant and she said she is too tired to do housework (clean the house) but she will go to her aunts house and babysit for her and do things for her aunts kid but she wont help out around the house? and when i asker do help me with something she gets mad
2006-07-28 15:03:12 · 14 answers · asked by raiderhater 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She is tired I am sure, it comes and goes throughout the day. Be a little patience, energy levels pick up after the first trimester for a lot of women. Be prepared for the mood swings and the tiredness...the emotions and all that too. She probably wants to be around kids to help her feel like she is in training for being a mom.
2006-07-28 15:06:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
In the first trimester of pregnancy, you do get very tired. Just cut her a little slack and help her out a little. She will start to feel a little better soon.
2006-07-28 22:05:44 · answer #2 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well did she ever do any housework before she was pregnant?
If she did, than cut her some slack , she really is tired. If she was alway lazy than you need to talk.
2006-07-28 22:07:59 · answer #3 · answered by Lorrane 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Buy her a subscription to good housekeeping and keep inviting all your friends over every night until she gets the message, and quite whinning, everything changes, nothing stays the same.
2006-07-28 22:10:05 · answer #4 · answered by Patrick C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can either a.) start cleaning and see if she might just get up and help. b.) just clean your stuff only
or maybe she is just plain lazy and not really fond of cleaning(thats if she never cleaned, and if thats the case you knew she didnt clean b4 she got pregnant).
2006-07-28 22:09:40 · answer #5 · answered by coco_chanel5000 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she doesn't want to help u and babysite for that other girl i would totaly stop doing stuff around the house untill she is willing to help u.
2006-07-28 22:14:44 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Drag her butt around the house till she gets up and does something. Its not gonna kill her or anything. It will definatly get your point across! Good Luck Buddy.
2006-07-28 22:06:44 · answer #7 · answered by TracieLacy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why don't you help out with the housework
2006-07-28 22:06:37 · answer #8 · answered by Leah nora 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she's pregnant you should be considerate and try to do most things yourself. if you ask nicely maybe she'll do something like wash dishes (something not too strenuous).
2006-07-28 22:06:31 · answer #9 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
keep the dishes dirty and your laudry all over the house. eventually she'll get tired of seeing it and do it herself.
2006-07-28 22:06:28 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋