Ok, me and him- we're best friends. The only thing is : i love him, and I told him once b-4 , but I don't really think he thought I was serious. We hung out the other day, and went swimming, and he kept on wrapping his arms around me in the pool. Then, we went back to my house to watch a movie, and he leaned my head back in his lap and put his arm around me for the next ten minutes. It felt so right, but once he said he didn't like me like that........I'm so confused ........HELP!!!!!!!!!
2006-07-28 14:47:51 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ok, the deal is: I'm probaly seeing him Wednesday, and we're having a scary movie marathon. The catch is: On August 5, I'm moving to Georgia, and he's moving to Missouri. Does absence really make the heart grow fonder?
2006-07-28 15:05:04 · update #1
Think carefully about it because once you take your friendship to the next level it will never be the same again. You will not be able to go back to just being friends.
If you decide to go for it then tell him, "I think I've fallen for you. Wouldn't we make a great couple?"
2006-07-28 14:49:04 · answer #1 · answered by Plasmapuppy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im not sure what you want help with, so im just gunna be general about it. if i had more info... it would be alot easier, but im just gunna work with what i got.
okay. so confusion is never a pleasant state of mind, but love (if that IS what your feeling) is a confusing thing. so here's my advice.
a) dont tell him you love him until you are 1oo% sure that is the correct emotion u have for him. make sur ethat your not just feeling a strong connection of friendship, or closeness.
b)sometimes guys just hold you. if he holds/touches girls all the time, then dont look too into it. it might just be his personality.
c)sometimes things that arent right feel right. so him and you might feel right because hes your friend, your comfortable with him... not because u there is there is a deeper connection between you two.
d)if all of these tips arent helping... just tell him. if you think your friendship is as strong as you think... it shouldnt change anything... and if he ISNT the type a guy to be touching girls... then maybe the feeling is mutual. maybe you'll be lucky and things will go great.
so those were my tips of advice.... im not sure if they are gunna help, or if they make sense. good luck, and i hope everything goes well for you.
=D
2006-07-28 15:00:44 · answer #2 · answered by Anna.R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well..... do you think he has feelings for you? If you don't know or even think he does just come out and tell him. There is nothing worse than not telling him how you feel. In the end, if he is really your best friend and he cares about you he won't want to hurt you. If he doesn't feel the same way he will probably just ask to stay friends. If he does love you than you can take your relationship to a high level.
Hope that helps.
-Tricia
2006-07-28 14:53:54 · answer #3 · answered by angelcake2118 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He just didn't want you guys to get wierd around each other while going out. You guys are friends after all. What if you guys break up? Would things be the same between you two as before? If you are in love, you should try your best. It's better to have loved and lost than never loved at all.
2006-07-28 14:53:20 · answer #4 · answered by melomane 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
real life story. this happened to me.
I really liked one of my best friends. one day i called her to see if she wanted to go to a movie. we sat together in the back row. (hint the armrests go up) in the begining i made sure i had some body contact (legs touching or 2 arms on the armrest) about 1/3 into the movie i slowly put my hand on my leg but close to hers. hopefully they will do the same slowly move your hand closer until they are touching. lift you hand up above the other persons slowly and if they are interested then they will open there hand and you can slide your hand into theres and intertwine ur fingers.hold hands for the rest of the movie. remember to let the other person accept every movement you make and dont force anything. let it flow.
good luck
god bless +
2006-07-28 14:58:39 · answer #5 · answered by California 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for it...!!! Give him a try. Things may turn out to be fine. Also the more you think about him the more you will be confused, just let fate move in.
2006-07-28 14:54:21 · answer #6 · answered by Amsua 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is a sturdy be conscious chica. yet he ought to such as you. attempt asking him a query (circumvent specific or no questions) and notice in case you will get convo rolling. yet I say attempt to verify him around out of sophistication. You on no account comprehend it ought to open up something completely new :) I desire the suitable of success for you
2016-10-01 05:16:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't get your hopes up sweetie. he's just being a flirt. if he really liked you he would have made a move. I say move on, get another guy. Perhaps if you bring another guy into the picture he might see the light that you belong with him. Jealousy sometimes works
2006-07-28 14:52:10 · answer #8 · answered by lilgracie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok im going to come right out and say this you need to tell him how you feel. ask him to come over and watch a movie then tell him in the middle of it. tell him you like him more then a friend and if he doesnt like you in that way give him time be his friend.
2006-07-28 14:55:26 · answer #9 · answered by kool_pretty_girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depending on how long ago it was he said "he didn't like you like that"....I think it's time to bring it up again.....but don't push it.
If he says again he doesn't like you like that, you either need to be ready to accept that, or tell him you can't be "just friends" anymore because you have strong feelings.
2006-07-28 14:52:00 · answer #10 · answered by saturnsl2_98 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋