I just came out of a bad relationship. It went pretty bad the last couple of months, til we decided it was over. I convinced myself I was gonna give it some time and eventually go back with him. However, I met someone at work, who is not only totally hot but a very very nice and special guy. He actually made me realize I should move on, and leave my ex in the past. He has a girlfriend though...I ingonore how serious things are between them. I REALLY like him, I'm sooo attracted to him and I feel I met him at the perfect time. I know it's too soon... but I can't help it, I think about him a lot and I wanna believe I have a chance with him someday... is this wrong??
2006-07-28 14:43:59 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The situation is actually very simple. It's not the perfect time for either of you. You are still greiving the loss of your last BF. I'm sure the new guy is great compared to the last guy but he's great for someone else right now.
If he dumps her for you then he may do that do you too. Take some more time to let the emotional dust settle down a bit. Then you'll be able to choose a guy that's not only great but also AVAILABLE. Then, it's the perfect time.
Good for you to ask before doing something embarrasing!
T
2006-07-28 14:51:33 · answer #1 · answered by CaliforniaT 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to stop right now. If this guy you like so much felt the same way about you, he would have broken up with his girlfriend. Don't try to break them up either because even if you two get together you are always going to wonder if some girl is going to come in and do the same thing you did.
2006-07-28 21:47:56 · answer #2 · answered by lilgracie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sray busy following your goals
2006-07-28 21:54:30 · answer #3 · answered by del b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just stay friends.
2006-07-28 21:49:20 · answer #4 · answered by Niceguy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you shouldn't steal him from his girlfriend. if he cheats with you, he'll cheat on you. find another.
2006-07-28 21:48:18 · answer #5 · answered by sinned 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what makes you think that he won't cheat on you.
2006-07-28 21:57:30 · answer #6 · answered by rickinobetz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋