We're very, very good friends, and I've just always been used to us being kids. We have started to try some new things, moving slowly into intimacy, and things are going fine, but I'm scared of us losing something that we had before. I'm not really sure... It's kind of hard to explain. Just any advice - serious advice, not ****, would be nice please.
2006-07-28 14:28:27 · 8 answers · asked by richie.tenenbaum 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Nothing lasts forever - as long as this 'loss' is not a 'negative' loss and signifies a 'growth' in your relationship, just take it easy and at your own pace - don't be afraid of change - you can't knock it until you try it - I miss what my girl was like three years ago - I feel we lost something that we could only retain in our early adolescent innocence - but its not that bad - you learn to do some cool stuff that compensates :p.
2006-07-28 14:32:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
You are doing the right thing, moving slowly with new experiences and taking your time with her. That's a very mature and respectful thing to do. I understand your feelings; if you move into something serious, what will happen afterwards? You need to talk to your girlfriend about this. Build more trust around the relationship/friendship, so if the relationship doesn't work out, you know you both have a stable friendship to fall back on. And, of course, continue taking your time with her and be patient. There's not many guys like you out there anymore. Good luck!
2006-07-28 14:37:15 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think there's a little freak in all of us. Some more than others. Anything that is unusal is bound to be scary but just take it slow and please don't give her an ultimadum if she decides not to do some of the things you want. I'm a very reserved and conservative person but lately I've been a little more freaky than I would usually be but the person who I've been doing it with is up front and respects my wishes if it is something that I don't want to do. You can get her to do some of these things but you have to find a way that she would enjoy doing it. Remember it's about pleasing both of you. Learn how to get inside her mind and what she finds erotic. We all have these thought you just have to bring them out.
2006-07-28 14:35:18 · answer #3 · answered by favoritecolorsblue 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's a very good chance that a friendship turned romance will 'lose' something and it might not be able to be regained should the romance not work out...
Proceed slowly...and know in your heart before you take this completely romantic, that you are willing to risk losing her completely, for the chance to have her as something other than a friend...
Good luck...
2006-07-28 14:35:45 · answer #4 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-10 16:48:52 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Communication is the key for a successful relationship...
2006-07-28 14:34:36 · answer #6 · answered by duck_kreeves 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk opening about your wants. Take the risk... maybe she is thinking the same thing!
2006-07-28 14:32:05 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just communicate with her and never stop the door to talk open
and the s e x is good too
2006-07-28 14:31:37 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋