whats the way out for 33 yer old housewife who gets bored of cooking and looking after childrens only?

Answer 1

I was gonna say something smartas$ed and thought better of it... go to church and remember why we are parents.

Answer 2

At 33 You're still young, you've got that spring in your step and you haven't started to suffer from the tell-tale signs of old age taking its toll on your body - find yourself a hobby - like a sport maybe - and if you get into playing a sport at this age (unfortunately there is a too late to start point) then you will remain fit and healthy for years to come - you will keep well and age well - or if you're not interested in a sport then you could always join/start a club of some sort cooking, books - turn what you usually do into something fun and productive - get involved with the community maybe? - Look around you there is plenty to do - the hardest part is getting started doing it - undoubtedly you probably also have troulbe leaving the kids with someone - I'm sure you and your husband (or partner, or if you are even living with a partner) can work something out - so that you have a couple of free nights a week to do whatever you want - or if this isn't the case then leaving your kids with a baby sitter or a better yet a trust worthy elderly relative a few days a week for a short time is hardly neglect :).

Answer 3

Make sure you take some time for yourself. You can probably find a local church that has a mothers day out program. You can take the kids there for a few hours once a week or so and spend the time taking care of you.

Or volunteer for your community, doing something that makes you feel good and helps others at the same time. Get a part time job for stimulation of your mind and a little extra in your pocket book. Take a long bubble bath after they all go to bed at night.

Give your husband one or two nights a week where he is responsible for the cooking and getting kids ready for bed. And you use the time to relax. Read, crochet, some other hobby, or just veg out in front of the TV.

Answer 4

It depends on what you mean by "way out"...I'll assume you mean how do you get away from the boredom of doing only domestic kinds of things.

My answer is vary your life. If you can't afford to put them in child care, try to put them in preschool so you can go volunteer somewhere or find a job that you can do from home or while they're at school. I'd try to find something that you're passionate about and/or that will feed the missing things in your life. For example, if you're lonely, join a MOMS or MOPS group, a book club, volunteer for something that has a lot of contact with people who have similar interests, etc. Look hard at what it is that's making you feel the need for more and address that. It might be social, you might be needing mental stimulation, or something else.

Answer 5

Way OUT???? That's pretty harsh. Does you husband provide everything you need and want for? your children too? If yes, you have no reason to complain! It is you duty as a wife and mother to stay home and raise your kids, keep to your house duties, and love your husband. Women now a day want everything but arn't willing to do what they are born to do. You would find so much happiness if you put your heart and soul into your housework, clean, cook, decorate, arts and crafts. If you put all your love into your childrens happiness, YOU will be happy! Get them involved in everything you need to do around the house, cook for them, teach them everything, play with them! If you devoted yourself to your husband, you will have the greatest of joy. Take care of him with all your heart, and you will always be happy. It's a labor of LOVE!! If you spend your whole day doing your actions with your whole heart because you love your husband and children, how can you go wrong? The whole day is filled with pleasure, just from folding socks, and cooking dinner, and everything in between!! You are doing the right thing by staying at home with your children and doing what you are MENT to do!! If you are borred with cooking, why not try a new recipe? Find the JOY in providing your family with nourishment!! Take care of yourself too! Don't let everyone come BEFORE you! You can love them with all your heart...but don't forget about yourself!! I don't know what else I can say, but that all you need to do is just change the attitude in the way your thinking....good luck sugar!!

Answer 6

i am a 33 year old housewife too. this is what i do. after the children are asleep , i solve questions in yahoo answers, i watch tv, read a book, knit, write poems, paint, exersise, call my friends. in weekends i dump the kids on my hubby and have a girls day out. i know you feel worthless and bored but these are the golden years.

Answer 7

hmmm, so you're bored and begin to ask yourself, "what purpose does life serve? I'm here cooking and looking after kids, eating, sleeping, and shitting, and pissing. Why am i here? Maby you can use this as a sign that you should fulfill a purpose of something you strongly believe in or search for your life's meaning and see where that takes you from there.

Oh yeah, getting a job and going to college wouldn't be a bad idea either, do it while you are still remotely young!! Do it now!!

Answer 8

There is really no way out per se, but you could get a hobby and spend more time on something that you enjoy doing. You could also consider taking the kids to a relatives once a week so that you get a break.

Answer 9

You could try volunteering during the time your kids are in school, if they are in school. You'll learn new skills, that can help you get a job later and you meet new people.
If your kids are not in school yet, take some online college courses from a local college. Or find other moms to trade kid sitting with so you have some time on your own.

Answer 10

Find something just for yourself, no hubby no kids ! Maybe a day each week that you could get your hair and nails done of shop at the mall with friends! Find a hobby or just walk in the local park and meditate !You could even take a class a the local community college in your area ,Trust me this works for me!

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