I see and hear all the time about women who are looking for a good man, because in there last relationship they were abused, or cheated on and down right treated like sh''''''it. I on the other hand am single, don't drink, have a excellent job, don't hit or swear at anyone and love kids. Where are these women who want a good man, seems as tho, the bad guys get the women and ones like myself end up alone.
2006-07-28 13:21:56 · 26 answers · asked by Cobra 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
u... r .... a fag
2006-07-28 13:24:25 · answer #1 · answered by Nessy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe they want to be the good one in the relationship or they believe that they can change the guy... I always end up being in these kind of relationships where U feel that the guy isn't into U and UR the one making every effort...so I see what U mean Cobra... hope U'll find the affectionate woman U deserve :)
2006-07-28 20:30:01 · answer #2 · answered by Celebriel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to think about exactly where are you positioning yourself. are you a barhopper or clubber? are you too particular? face it not everyone is going to get jessica simpson. how are you portraying yourself? have you had your friends try to introduce you to people. i hate to say this but i hear you can find plenty of good chicks at church functions. there are plenty of good women saying the exact same thing as you. i bet if you thought about all the women you've had problems with you'd find a common denominator. hone in on that detail and stay away from women like that. whether it be they were materialistic, or jealous, or cheaters. you'll find someone you love just keep looking and don't be afraid to go up to people.
2006-07-28 20:33:02 · answer #3 · answered by importance of being wilde 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cobra,
I think you're just looking in the wrong places. These single good women who want families arn't gonna be waiting for you.. you have to find them! Believe me they are out there.. and they don't always want bad boys... Some like the excitement.. but they always settle down with the good boy with a gentle heart. Best of luck finding *miss right*
2006-07-28 20:27:23 · answer #4 · answered by Bugg 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you just have to show women that you truly are a good guy. I'm sure you'll find someone who will love you just like you love them Good luck!! i went out with some really asses before I found the man I'm with now who treates me right and loves me and i love him. I couldn't have asked for any one better! So try to find someone go to the clubs and stuff like that soon you will find someone!
2006-07-28 20:26:21 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well usually women look for guys that are out there...wild and free basically. But if you really want to find a real girl look on yahoo messenger.. there are girls on there all the time. They all are looking for a great guy... Some girls just like getting beaten up... but others they don't want to be in that relationship and therefore can't get out of it without risking something dear to them... ya know.
2006-07-28 20:27:20 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ye life's not fair. But u can't just expect to be good and have all the ladies come to you. You have to actually go out and search for them. And trust me women tend to fall for bad guys but only for a while. Then they find the good men. So give it time, and go clubbing or something.
2006-07-28 20:26:25 · answer #7 · answered by smarty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ladies want the cake and eat it to, the want the good nice responsible man and at the same time the fantasize about having a rebel in there life, but its one or the other in my opinion
2006-07-28 20:27:39 · answer #8 · answered by twistedsingle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Finding them is the hardest part. Don't try too hard to find that special person they will come to you. Maybe someone will come to you for help in a bad relationship. That will mean you are meant for each other. The point is, they're out there and you will find one who loves you.
2006-07-28 20:29:36 · answer #9 · answered by Keebler 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think sometimes women are attracted to the "bad boy" thing, but in the long term, they'll want someone more like you. Initially I think it's a chemistry thing, but that doesn't always last for long if it's all physical. I think the question is, where are you hiding that they can't find you? :-)
2006-07-28 20:27:20 · answer #10 · answered by buggoff 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women say they want nice men but its not always true. I was interested in a girl who liked me, once she knew i was interested she changed her mind. She then went through a string of bad guys who used her and treated her badly. Go figure
2006-07-28 20:24:25 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋