my bf is moving away (like 3 hour flight kind of away) and i was wondering if i should continue the realtionship with him or basically start working on just being friends
2006-07-28 13:03:33 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It depends on how close you two are.
They never worked out for me.
Good Luck.
2006-07-28 13:05:22 · answer #1 · answered by Baby J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess it depends on how strong your relationship is. My boyfriend and I are 1000 miles apart and we're just as strong as we were a year and a half ago. We still see eachother more than 4 times a year and talk constantly. If the relationship means anything to you, it's worth a try to keep it going. If it ends, then it'll be because you're both unhappy and you'll be gaining the opportunity to be happy with someone local. It won't be easy, but you can do it.
2006-07-28 20:14:15 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should try to work it out. Don't break up with him all because he is moving. Me and my boyfriend do't get to see eachother physically but our relationship is good and it has been going on for 2 years. But even though you guys won't be able to see eachother physically that might give an advantage to your relationship. What I mean by that is that if you guys are 3 hours away then it keeps you guys from being clingy and so if you guys aren't clingy then your relationship should last longer then if you guys were clingy.
2006-07-28 20:10:09 · answer #3 · answered by Nanner 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It can work out if you are both willing to put in the work. Ask himm what he wants, and you figure out what you want. I am not sure of your age or where he's moving too, but the two of you need to figure this out together. Long distance is hard, because they start a new life in the new place. But, true love will stand the test of time.
Good luck to you
2006-07-28 20:15:18 · answer #4 · answered by farmhouse168 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WELL IF YOU HAVE PLANS ON CONTINUING THE RELATIONSHIP AS IN THE FUTURE GETTING MARRIED THEN CONTINUE IT I LIVE IN PUERTO RICO AND MY BF LIVES IN HARTFORD WE ARE STILL TOGETHER WE SPEAK EVER NIGHT I FLY OUT TO SEE HIM WHEN I'M ON VACATION FROM SCHOOL OR WHEN WE HAVE THE MONEY THIS YEAR WE'VE ONLY SEEN EACH OTHER ONCE FOR A WEEK. ITS DIFFICULT BUT IF YOU GUYS LOVE EACH OTHER YOU CAN WORK AT IT YOU JUST HAVE TO BE OPENED MINDED I MEAN YOU SHOULDNT EXPECT HIM NOT TO BE INTIMATE WITH ANYONE ELSE YOU GUYS SHOULD HAVE AN OPEN RELATIONSHIP HE SHOULD BE ABLE TO DO WHAT HE WANTS YOU SHOULD DO WHAT YOU WANT I MEAN YOU ARE MILES AWAY TRY TO BE MORE HIS FRIEND THAT WAY HE TELLS YOU EVERYTHING HE DOES BUT BE CAREFUL WHAT YOU YELL HIM YOU'VE DONE TRY NOT TO ARGUE WITH HIM ABOUT ANYTHING YOUR ONLY RULE SHOULD BE NEVER TO GET INTO ANOTHER SERIOUS RELATIONSHIP PROMISE EACH OTHER YOU'LL WAIT FOR EACH OTHER. GOOD LUCK WITH WHAT EVER YOU DECIDE
2006-07-28 20:13:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not sure if even being friends would work. Neither one of you wants to hear about the others new boyfriend or girlfriend. Either move with him or call off the relationship.
2006-07-28 20:06:08 · answer #6 · answered by nolyad69 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry I have been through quite a few long distant realationships and they all ways end in being cheated on and lied to . Find a lacal boy and forget about the one who does'nt care about just leaving you hanging!
2006-07-28 20:08:31 · answer #7 · answered by biggboyy2ko 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. I think its all about love. I havent lived with my boyfriend and weve dated over two years. It sucks because you cant see him as often, but you also get your sense of independency. You get your space but you must MUST must have trust. Follow your intuition girl because its the only things you have to determine if its worth it to twiddle your cute thumbs on a friday night or bump into Mr right and actually persue him at the gym!
2006-07-28 20:07:50 · answer #8 · answered by Brown Beauty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on both of you...your communications to each other, sometimes it work out and some are not. But there are relationship that as long as they're far from each other much more passionate.
2006-07-28 20:15:22 · answer #9 · answered by alexcruz56 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends.. you two have to work things out.. compromise on a lot of things inorder to keep your relationship.. its really hard though but as long as you love each other then why break up? being together is not really a guarantee that ur relationship will work either so dont let distance ruin your relationship.. goodluck!
2006-07-28 20:07:24 · answer #10 · answered by --gWynEtH-- 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
usually they do not work out. I had a friend and she broke up with her bf because he moved and they thought was better to seperate. I never tried it though...I wish it can work with you, but most of the times it does not
2006-07-28 20:09:59 · answer #11 · answered by (^_^) CHiccaaqui(^_^) 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋