someone answer this question for me?

Question

why do men always lie about loving you but really they just want to f**k you and thats really just all they want???????

and for one im a virgin i havent had sex so take it easy on me im not easy im just wondering what people have to say about that....

Answer 1

Because they have little brains and can only think with their "thingy." Keep saying no to sex until you find a guy who actually uses his intelligence and actual brain to think.

Answer 2

Hey April, i absolutely deny that all men or guys lie about loving and always think of sex. Thats completely absurd. Pardon me for saying that. But I am a guy and I am tired of gender fights. With the experience I have had with friends (guys and girls), I really can say that men do have an urge for sex due to natural instinct. And women or girls should try to understand that aspect of human.

Ofcourse if you think a guy is lying about loving then he doesnt deserve to be loved. I think all guys do change, and its just depends on meeting the right woman who would match their views/desires. When they experience real love and if they are sensitive enough...then any guy will treat women as they should be treated. I think sensitive guys do tend to think more like girls. They do care, understand and love as much as any girl.

These days sensitive girls are also not easy to find, to be honest. The personality of a person depends on society, culture and environment. So I advice people not to judge a person by gender/race/religion but rather think broadminded and have patience/maturity/strength.

I hope this satisfies your question. All the best. Take care.

Answer 3

I'll answer you question with a question:

Why do many women turn down nice guys who want serious relationships and go after abusive guys that just want sex?

Hmm?

The missing element is LOVE.

Many (men and women alike) have not learned the difference between simple attraction and real love for another.

Too many confused people, men and women both.

I think I'm a pretty nice guy. I do not pursue women for only sex. In fact, I've turned down many beautiful women. And frankly, not to be rude or a real butt-head, but I wouldn't go near a woman who asked a question like that -- I find it insulting and highly offensive. (Not to mention that is sounds awfully conceited on your part -- why are you so perfect? None of us are. We are all human, we all make mistakes.)

Sorry, but that's the truth.

Answer 4

Because you fall for it thats why. If someone says he loves you and its actually true that will be reflected in his actions. He will spend time with you, he will call you, he will want to talk to you and listen to you, he will care how you feel. If he only wants laid that is pretty easy to figure out, you don't give it to him (at least not for a while) then you see if he sticks around. If you really want to figure it out quick say you are saving it for marriage and there is no chance you are getting any so if thats what you want just walk away, if he walks away you saved yourself a lot of time.

Answer 5

Because most men do not have a soul, and do not care. They will tell you exactly what they think you want to hear, and then once you give up the goods, they are history. I learned that the hard way, but now, I just listen to their crap, laugh, and when it comes time to wanting to leave or be at someones place....nope, hate it, tell them..."MAYBE...next time, if they are lucky". Actually, that is how I scored my hubby that I have been with almost 8yrs. I kept on telling him no...that i just wasn't into the one night stand routine, and if he was... he needed to go find some skank that was. Look at it this way, to the losers that did that to you...it's their loss that they did that to you, not yours, learn from it, and move on. You will find a good one in that mess of losers!!!

Answer 6

I am very sorry that some freak'n dumb a** took such advantage of you. I can only think of a few things that would be lower !!! Please don't let yourself believe that all men could be this bad. for it is then that love may elude you forever. know that it was not your fault to trust and love unconditionally, but that rather these are traits that any real man could be so lucky to find in his own women. It has been my miss fortune to not run into someone such as yourself, and be able to settle down and live in peace, game free. so keep your smile on and never change, I am sure that their are many out their as myself, that could only be so lucky to run into someone as yourself.
(just another well behaved man on the same mission !!!!)

Answer 7

This is really sad unfortunately, and worse Im a male and I know a bunch of friends who do this stupid things to women.

I really dont know what to do with this situation and the only advice I can give women, is to be careful who they go out with, dont let someone take you to bed and then kick your butt...frist know each other as much as you can, even get married and then have a fun sexual life.

Less worries and less strees :)

Answer 8

Most men dont have the capacity to tell the truth. Plus from the beginning of time, men have been conditioned to think they only have to act like they love you to get the prize. Sadly, alot of the women have fallen and continue to fall for it over and over again. Myself included when I was growing up.

Answer 9

Not all guys are like that, but a simple rule to keep in mind. Men use love to get sex. Women use sex to get love.

Answer 10

Not all guys are like that. I never told a woman I loved her when I just wanted in her pants. I've always been pretty straight forward on the subject.

Answer 11

We don't. I didn't tell my girlfriend i loved her for while after we slept together. Some people just say it to get into your pants, the trick is being able to tell who means it and who just wants sex. Its usually fairly obvious, if they always talk about sex then you have your answer.