If my Bf of 4 yrs buya kmart ring $60, proposes & 6 mo. later takes it back doesnt see me anymore & suddenly he asks me to buy a house with him. And i ask him r we getting married? he says after we buy the house and you put it under my his/my name? IS something not right here? I ask him why under his name & he says cuz u got bad credit?
2006-07-28 12:46:55 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Plus he doesnt have a relationship w/ me anymore but now he wants 2 buy a house?married, is this a lie!!! What is he trying 2 do 2 me?
2006-07-28 12:48:17 · update #1
he wants me to save all the money 120k & buy it no mtg required.
2006-07-28 12:58:34 · update #2
That sounds really screwed up! If you are going to buy a house WITH HIM, make sure your name is on the loan. It doesn't matter if you have bad credit, your name can still be on it...the interest rate may be a little higher though. Buying a house together is a big commitment, but he took the ring back??? It sounds like he is either confused or just using you for his benefit. Who wouldn't want someone to help pay their mortgage??
2006-07-28 12:53:32 · answer #1 · answered by TJ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Something smells bad here. Do you know that most people who have a bad credit are able to buy a house? I dont see good intentions here. Did he explained why he left you?
I think you can tell him sure, lets buy a house, but I won't give you a penny.
2006-07-28 19:54:43 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
to me it sounds like he using you because why would he take back your ring and leave then come back and ask you to buy a house and put it under your name please somethings wrong don't buy the house and don't get married. if you want to make it seem like you kinda don't because of the point that he left you. tell him what have you done good for me that would make me change my mine and be with you? it should work. if he feels guilty he would go out his way to do something really good for you.he probably said that so if yall split up he will keep the house
2006-07-28 19:58:07 · answer #3 · answered by lady t. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't do that he using u he might leave u after he get the house he might be with someone you never know better safe than sorry and your credit is just an excuse and if y'all live together and he have company of the other sex and you hear them you'll be hurt yet that's where you live no place to go don't do that( he left you and now he comes back not to be with you but because he needs you) if i was you i wouldn't share anything with him don't his fool cause in my eyes you'll be a laugh... and don't try to get married because divorce is the word to get out of that
2006-07-28 19:56:28 · answer #4 · answered by murphyswife01 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a lie. It sounds to me like he's using you in case his house plans don't work out. Don't mean to sound pessimistic, but truthfully, if he runs out on you, you will be fully responsible for making the payments because YOUR NAME is on the paper as a legal owner. This isn't about bad credit--this is about this guy trying to take advantage of you. Leave him.
2006-07-28 19:51:24 · answer #5 · answered by SoJen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definalty, something is not right here. He has no intention of marrying you. You have to see that. He using you to get a house (hence, the after we get the house part). Once he has the house, he'll show you the doorstep.
2006-07-28 20:18:06 · answer #6 · answered by JB 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you serious?
You can't figure this one out for yourself. He does not want the commitment of a relationship - but wants the commitment of co-ownership of a house? His bad credit is his problem - don't be stupid and make it your own.
Not to mention - a $60 ring from K-Mart? Are you kidding me!
2006-07-28 19:52:30 · answer #7 · answered by kpizura 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's too slick for me to figure out what his angle is, but one thing's for sure: something stinks in there somewhere. You're wise to be skeptical, and even wiser no to enter any contractual arrangements with this guy. He may not be doing anything, but he's definitely not being forthcoming with relevant information.
2006-07-28 19:52:50 · answer #8 · answered by Captain S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this guy wants you to buy the house in his name he is full of broken promises do not bind your self to this guy unless you see a lawyer break up with him and refuse to have anything to do with him
2006-07-28 19:52:59 · answer #9 · answered by Elaine F 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl don't do it. he is probably trying to play you for a fool. something obviously doesn't feel right to you about this whole situation or you wouldn't be asking the question. you should always follow your first instinct.
2006-07-28 19:50:58 · answer #10 · answered by kalola_iz_karamel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋