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Im not obessed im just chubby. I'm not fat either. Im just wondering do women care about a chubby man?

2006-07-28 12:34:53 · 15 answers · asked by Seymoore B 1 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

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Well here's the thing, many people claim that beauty on the inside is what really matters, right? But it isn't at all that easy. To be initially attracted to someone you obviously must base it firstly on what you see. Nobody wears their personality on thier sleeves so you don't see what's inside a person first. You do see what they look like on the outside first and hence, your initial interpretaion of that either attracts you or doesn't. Now, that in mind when a person sees a "chubby" guy the first time, most girls don't give them a second look. Some girls do who are attracted to that type but the majority stick to the mold; the object of sex that the media portrays that we accept as our own model of human attraction. So honestly, women do care about it very much. Another thing, evolutionary theories make claims that women are more attracted to the image of health and strength because it was necessary for survival even from the dawn of time. To this day we make our choices based (almost entirely unconsciously) on this fact. So what i mean to say is that we would quicker choose a fit man than a chubby man because it appears that the fit man enhances our chances of survival.

2006-07-28 12:57:35 · answer #1 · answered by Ash 6 · 0 0

Little Man Breast

2017-01-16 13:05:23 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0 0

I've been with a skinny, muscular guy and I'm with a big guy right now. I honestly prefer the big guy I'm dating right now. I always loved the raw masculinity of muscle but there's something about my boyfriend now that I absolutely love. I can't seem to figure out what it is though. More to love I guess:) It's probably that he's so much bigger than me and I feel safe in his arms because of his size. The only thing I don't like about his size is that it can be a health risk in later years.

2006-07-28 13:55:44 · answer #3 · answered by Mistress Hazard 2 · 0 0

I believe so, a hunk is not the most important person in life. Sometime you have a hunk or junk. If someone love another, that outward appearance shouldn't matter and long as one love the inside of that person. There are beautiful overweight people in this world that someone would be proud to have.

2006-07-28 12:41:51 · answer #4 · answered by Dee 1 · 0 0

No. I don't know anyone that truely cares about that. What women really care about is if the man is a good man, an honest man, and he has a good since of humor.

2006-07-28 12:51:26 · answer #5 · answered by carolscreation 4 · 0 0

inner beauty counts the most, i would prefer a chubby man that will treat me with respect than a buff man that is a Ahole,unfortunately some girls lack wisdom and prefer the buff Aholes but im sure they are not happy

2006-07-28 12:41:54 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

We do care for your health, but some people aren't shallow. Some people won't judge you for your size or appearance. Just the problem of finding those few that aren't shallow in today's society. Good luck.

2006-07-28 12:39:39 · answer #7 · answered by tex_grl_30 2 · 0 0

My husband, yes I said HUSBAND, is super fat, and he has man boobs, only because he is a fatty. His stomach is literally the size of a spare tire. He is so big I get leg/hip cramps when we ....you know...

I started dating him fat. He is still fat. I love him. I am beautiful and blond, and I am a great catch. So you have to find the right person. She will find you!!!

2006-07-28 12:40:46 · answer #8 · answered by bran 5 · 0 0

yes i care about what my man looks like. i want a man that takes care of his body. i workout and stay in shape and expect my mate to do the same. every woman, just like every man, is attracted to different physical characteristics...to each his own. personality counts also.

2006-07-28 12:43:45 · answer #9 · answered by kalola_iz_karamel 2 · 0 0

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Good luck

2006-07-28 12:36:53 · answer #10 · answered by hoyhoydc 3 · 0 0

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