Which of your wives will appear in heaven with you?

Question

If you are married and your wife dies of natural causes, then you get re-married and your next wife dies of natural causes, will they both appear with you in heaven?

Wouldn't they get mad about having to share you? Can you get angry in heaven?

Answer 1

That is precisely why Divorce is frowned upon.

Hails,
Silence

Answer 2

I'd like to think that people's relationships are more timeless in heaven...so you "know" someone across a number of lifetimes and their role in the most recent is not really that significant. Negative emotions are largely tied to earthly concerns (jealousy or anger due to inequity, insult, aggression, etc.) so they wouldn't exist there. A lot of the Sylvia Brown type of psychics describe it that way (claiming they can visit and thus have first hand knowledge of how things work). Regardless of whether that is true, her ideas are actually pretty interesting as are her books.

Answer 3

Death cuts the marriage strings.

By the way, the Saducees tested Jesus on this topic.

Friend, I do suggest you read the Bible, unless you did this just to exercise our knowledge about it.

The answer from the Bible in two versions

Mark 12:19-27 (American Standard Version)
American Standard Version (ASV)

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19 Teacher, Moses wrote unto us, If a man's brother die, and leave a wife behind him, and leave no child, that his brother should take his wife, and raise up seed unto his brother.

20 There were seven brethren: and the first took a wife, and dying left no seed;

21 and the second took her, and died, leaving no seed behind him; and the third likewise:

22 and the seven left no seed. Last of all the woman also died.

23 In the resurrection whose wife shall she be of them? for the seven had her to wife.

24 Jesus said unto them, Is it not for this cause that ye err, that ye know not the scriptures, nor the power of God?

25 For when they shall rise from the dead, they neither marry, nor are given in marriage; but are as angels in heaven.

26 But as touching the dead, that they are raised; have ye not read in the book of Moses, in the place concerning the Bush, how God spake unto him, saying, I am the God of Abraham, and the God of Isaac, and the God of Jacob?

27 He is not the God of the dead, but of the living: ye do greatly err.


Mark 12:19-27 (New Living Translation)
New Living Translation (NLT)

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19"Teacher, Moses gave us a law that if a man dies, leaving a wife without children, his brother should marry the widow and have a child who will be the brother's heir.[a] 20Well, there were seven brothers. The oldest of them married and then died without children. 21So the second brother married the widow, but soon he too died and left no children. Then the next brother married her and died without children. 22This continued until all the brothers had married her and died, and still there were no children. Last of all, the woman died, too. 23So tell us, whose wife will she be in the resurrection? For all seven were married to her."

24Jesus replied, "Your problem is that you don't know the Scriptures, and you don't know the power of God. 25For when the dead rise, they won't be married. They will be like the angels in heaven. 26But now, as to whether the dead will be raised--haven't you ever read about this in the writings of Moses, in the story of the burning bush? Long after Abraham, Isaac, and Jacob had died, God said to Moses,[b] `I am the God of Abraham, the God of Isaac, and the God of Jacob.'[c] 27So he is the God of the living, not the dead. You have made a serious error."

Answer 4

They may both see you on the Other Side but you will likely be significantly closer emotionally to one than the other. Keep in mind that they, like you, also have soul mates from the past - like from former incarnations - that will be around too.

There is a full range of emotions and feelings when in the Spirit, with the added depth of being amplified, the degree of which depending upon how far one is ascended in The Light. So yes, people can and do get angry, just as they do in the flesh. Those on the lower levels get angry the most often, as they have the least contentment.

As far as having multiple intimate companions is concerned, it takes a saintly soul to be able to juggle that effectively without succumbing to lusty feelings which weaken, not strengthen, spiritual unity. Most people on either side have difficulty loving one person genuinely and deeply, much less more than one. Furthermore, when one is in the Spirit, one's thoughts and feelings are much more obvious than they are among those in the flesh.

So the degree of intimacy can be much greater.

My Guides in The Society Of Light have informed me that before I came into this body I took part in helping many people cross over, e.g., during the First and Second World Wars. One of those errands of mercy entailed helping someone by the name of Arthur Yensen, who was jolted into Spirit from a car accident in 1932. At which time, he was briefly in my camp on the Other Side and I was the main Spirit Guide that he spoke with before coming back to his body (sic).

http://www.near-death.com/experiences/reincarnation06.html

As is hinted at in Arthur's recollection, I have a lot of experience in having polyamorous relationships in the Spirit. It is not something that can be done effectively without a great deal of practice in the area of Radiating purified affection.

I've made considerable spiritual progress since those days.

Answer 5

i answer this in a previous question ...

i can only answer from my personal beliefs and what i am told as a spiritualist
love holds us together .. who we bond with and share with keeps us together
there is no sexual desires in spirit and the love is not the same as a physical love .. therefore there are not the same emotions that go with it such as jealousy
so the person will be with both the people they loved and share the afterlife with them until they are ready to take the next step on their spiritual development and let go of earthly bonds .. although they have free will and do not have to move on if that's not what they wish to do

Answer 6

If you have an earthly point of view, these questions will puzzle you.

No, I don't believe we will get angry. There will not be a need for anger. The Law of GOD(Ten Commandments) will truly be part of our personalities. If that is the case, there is nothing anyone can do to us that will make us angry!!!

Answer 7

Those chosen to serve in heaven(144,000) will be as angels without gender. Those resurrected to life on earth will be able to remarry. You would only be able to have one wife, both would have been freed from the marriage arrangement and their commitment to you, so it would come down to making a choice.

Answer 8

Thats Deep

Answer 9

ya, lowly earthly realtionships like that of a husband and wife will have no meaning in heaven. We are going to love each other equally, I guess.So your wife won't be that important anymore, relatively speaking.

Answer 10

This question was put to Christ.
There is no taking or giving in heaven there is no marriage in heaven.
Man like the angles were created at one time, and like the angles we are separate creations of God.

Answer 11

Ha~! I have a sick satisfaction in knowing my father is having to face my mother, whom died before him...as he had been married two other times after her....their still alive, but now he's dead and facing her....

Ya should of seen the lightning in the sky...THAT Night.;) I personally enjoyed every moment of it. Was a beautiful sight....*EVG*