Ok, here's the situation. So lately, I've been thinking about a girl. I haven't seen her in something like 4 years! Last I heard, she was still single, and I'm sure she still is because she has the kind of job where you don't really meet a lot of people.
Anyway, let me add some more surprising information...
She is the sister of an ex who I was with for four years. Yeah. Anyway, she is cuter, and I think has more personality that the ex. So, do you think I should call? I'm only concerned that my ex might pick up the phone and then I'd have to explain that I was really looking for the sister! GRRR! Anyway, what do you think? Maybe, I can say I just wanted to catch up with both of them, and work from there? Hmm...
2006-07-28 12:03:00 · 7 answers · asked by bornslippyboy 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No, the cute sister wasn't the cause of the breakup. It was a long distance thing. We ended on good terms and the family really loved me.
2006-07-28 12:09:15 · update #1
Yeah, they live together. Not calling seems right, but it makes me feel like a sissy...
2006-07-28 12:22:58 · update #2
ok, here is your answer bro........if u had an idea that at one point that she was into you then u should try to reach her but only if u last heard she was single in the last year to 1/2 year... bc if u think that she is single still after 4 years, u might be surprised since alot can happen in 4 years.....also, u should find a way to contact her in a way that your ex does not answer....i.e. email, IM, her personal cell phone, via her parents (have her call u back), or a relative/friend.... finally, there has got to be a very very strong feeling that u 2 will be together for a very long time (i.e. engagement/marriage) or this will be 1. weird and 2. tough on the ex .... plus, it will cause distance (in my opinion) b/w her and her sis...i am guessing they live together?...if they dont, just call her bc what are the chances her sis picks up the phone... just be ready for her to think it is totally random and weird that you are "cold calling" her 4 years since u last seen her.... SOUND GOOD?
2006-07-28 12:19:42 · answer #1 · answered by derek s 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If yall broke up because of a long distance thing, wouldnt it be the same with her sister? And If you like this girl, call her. You dont have to explain anything to your ex. Its none of her business what you do. yall arent together anymore. Dont try to pick up with both of them because girls talk and you would get screwed over in the end. Dont even try it. You never know what could happen. This girl could be the love of your life and if you dont take a chance, how will you ever find out?
2006-07-28 19:12:40 · answer #2 · answered by Tara 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm that is hard because it might cause trouble between the two sisters because the ex you were with might think that the only reason you two broke up was because of the other sister, but yet, its been four years so she might not think it. I think you should call her and hope that the other non-ex sister picks up the phone and if the ex does, just say its one of her friends that forgot her cellphone number. but i would call and if the ex picks up then oh well let it be.
2006-07-28 19:07:21 · answer #3 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it would be a bad idea if you did call as it has a very good possibility in ending in disaster. Not many girls would date their sisters ex especially as you guys dated for four years. Also as you have not seen her in four years she may have changed completely. Find yourself another girl to date.
2006-07-28 19:13:01 · answer #4 · answered by tiger lilly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do not think you should call her. You should not get in between two sisters. You are asking for drama! Leave it alone!
2006-07-28 19:15:12 · answer #5 · answered by strawberries 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so fish in the sea...thigns will be very complicated i think...do u know if she likes u?and if she likes u would she do anything with u?difficult!except that she will be like tha one u had for 4 years!!!go for something new man!
2006-07-28 19:08:33 · answer #6 · answered by seveneight 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should call her, if you dont call, you will regret u didnt call :/
2006-07-28 19:08:05 · answer #7 · answered by brian 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋