I am getting so sick of my bf of 2 months. We can never hang out cuz of hi s over-protective parents, so we talk on the phone. BUT, he WON'T EVER ANSWER HIS FREAKING PHONE OR CALL ME, so we have nothing. He is making me SOOOOOOO MAD!!
I wanna break up with him & find a better guy, but I'm afraid I'll still like him & want him back.....
I was COMPLETELY OBSESSED with this guy.
I'm scared 2 dump him, but I wanna better relationship.
2006-07-28 11:33:27 · 38 answers · asked by ♥Lovliness♥ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He has always been reeeeeeeeally sweet 2 me. I don't wanna hurt him, but he is not giving me what I want out of a relationship. He is one of the sweetest guys I've ever met that isn't a huge immiture dork. I REEEALLY don't wanna have any regrets.
2006-07-28 11:36:55 · update #1
WE USED 2 TALK ALL THE TIME, BUT JUST LIKE A WEEK AGO, HE HAS STARTED KINDA AVOIDING ME.
2006-07-28 11:39:36 · update #2
dump him because there are plenty of guys out in the world that will probably treat u better than ur current bf
2006-07-28 11:37:55 · answer #1 · answered by chaikid88@sbcglobal.net 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be scared! The bible says "you were not created with a spirit of fear..."
If he is not answering the phone that means he doesn't want to be bothered. Of course you will still have feelings because you can't turn them off so easily. Be encouraged. Be strong. Find friends that will support you in a good way.
You will find someone else because thats what your heart really wants to do. Don't allow your feelings to get the best of you. Don't be obsessed with him. Make a decision to stop being obsessed! Just let him go and allow yourself to heal first before getting into another relationship. If you don't you will have issues with trusting the next guy!
Good luck and don't forget to be strong.
2006-07-28 11:48:04 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say break up with him and move on to someone that will call you and that you can actually have a relationship with. Besides, you're young, and there will be lots of infatuations, crushes, and loves of your life. This guy can't offer you what you need right now, no matter how much you like him.
2006-07-28 11:37:23 · answer #3 · answered by holleygirl11 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In life, there are no promises. You can only go forward, so pick something and don't look back. If you have this much drama, it's not going to last, sorry to say. You seem quite young so I'd say, don't freak out and move on to better options.
2006-07-28 11:39:12 · answer #4 · answered by Angie28 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your relationshipis beginig to be more of a burden than a good time then guess what. its time to end it. Your young there are plenty of broken hearts left in you.Sorry tosay it but that is how love is you find some u loose some and you learn from it and MOVE ON.
2006-07-28 11:37:46 · answer #5 · answered by sergio3027 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well talk to him about it and tell him how you feel. If you guys can't think of a solution that will work out for the both of you, then it simply won't work out. But w/e happens, happens. But only you know what you should do.
2006-07-28 11:37:04 · answer #6 · answered by Fallen Angel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i say if there hasn't been contact for 2 months 7 he won't answer his phone then it's probably over already. If he felt the same for you , he'd answer that phone or find a way to see you.
2006-07-28 11:37:50 · answer #7 · answered by momof6 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A bf of 2 months isn't a lifetime commitment. Re-read your own question. You already have the answer.
2006-07-28 11:36:27 · answer #8 · answered by Jadzia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him, and get some one better. I was scared to leave my first bf because of those reasons, and i ended up staying with him for 11 months. Worse 11 months of my life.
2006-07-28 11:44:50 · answer #9 · answered by aae87 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You'll never have a real relationship with this guy...if things do work out and ya'll get married, you'll wind up living in his parents house with him more than likely.......go find someone you can be with and who will be able and willing to spend time and talk to you....
2006-07-28 11:38:10 · answer #10 · answered by honey_bear_21_1999 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋